Can girls easily move on from a 10-year relationship without any reason and be happy with someone else, burying their past memories?

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[Finchie40]

It can happen if she is a selfish girl that only really cares about herself and what she feels is best for herself, by thinking the grass is greener on the other side. It would also come down to as to why she is leaving her 10 year relationship? If her partner treats her well and stays loyal and faithful to her and she still decides to leave sadly she is a selfish person and her next relationship probably will not last the long haul either , People with selfish mindsets never experience true love because they only care about themselves , they can have a whole relationship all by themselves because they don’t really care about their partners’ feelings only their own

[blueonblack22]

Women are usually better at moving on then men are. Usually because they are better prepared and have been planning the break up much further in advance. They can cry things out and process it. They also have an easier time finding new relationships.

[dustybiker2]

You take memories, mistakes and everything else with you. If you've learned from them and processed them properly of course you can be fine with someone else. But that means not having expectations based on past experience. The new people deserve their own fresh shot.

[JosyJosy]

There's always a reason, I'm just a very logical person. No point in sitting there stuck in the past. Take what you had in that relationship as a lesson with you into the future.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Jumping straight into the deep end, aren't we? Let's swim through this together. Moving on from a decade-long love story? That's no walk in the park, let me tell you. People process emotions differently; some might seem like they're sprinting into a new chapter with sparkles in their eyes, but let's not forget, appearances can be deceiving. The heart doesn't wear a watch, my friend. It heals at its own pace, irrespective of whether it's tucked into another's embrace or not. Memories, ah, those tricky things, they have a way of popping up when you least expect them. Burying them? More like locking them in a chest and occasionally peeking inside, if you ask me. Everyone's healing journey is unique, and sometimes, finding happiness with someone else is part of their process. Don't be dazzled by the surface; the ocean's depth is where the true stories lie.

[Flatmanlewis]

I don’t think anybody just moves on from a ten year relationship without carrying some baggage. They may move onto relationship quickly, particularly short term rebounds, but that’s equally applicable to men and women alike. This is not a gender issue.

[nawtee_me]

The thing is with 10 years invested in a relationship it doesn’t matter if it is a guy or girl after the breakup nothing feels normal anymore. Because it isn’t…. For 10 years normal was being together and now the feelings are no longer normal. However, moving on just means making a new normal which will come in time. The old things pass away and the new things become normal….

[Lynx122]

Well I'm not a woman so I can't answer it but based on the amount of divorced women complaining on tik tok about how dating sucks it's not super easy.

[Hal2002]

It has been my experience, that females can not move on from any relationship cleanly. Be it months or years long, she will make herself the victim and blam the male for the relationship ending.

[ThaMaskedMarvel]

... Naaaaaaahhhhhhh. There's like a 1 percent chance of that ever working. That would be going against female nature. Fish swim, bunnies hop & women emotion.

[Mr_twoface]

It's never going to be easy but its possible to move on. Question is though why the 10-year relationship has come to an end and have every effort been done to solve all issues?

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[Sevenpointfive]

not for 10 years. there's a mathematical equation for it. basically double the years lol so in 20 years you'll be able to get over it. i hope that helps

[Hellur991]

For a women it's pretty hard because much more emotional then a men. So it definitely takes time for y'all. It's definetly not easy for us either but we just get over it within 2 weeks

[Nikki1989]

It is easy to do if you have good reasons to move on. Saying a woman should stay with a guy when they are not happy is just selfish and utterly ridiculous.

[genericname85]

i would say they sure can. but i do not think it'll be "easy". however sometimes the "right" things to do aren't the easy things.

[OddBeMe]

Sure but it’s probably harder than for guys. Not that ALL guys are sociopaths. But gals seem more emotional. The guy would be depressed too, just less noticeable.

[Chazmatazz269]

Certainly. Most women keep at least one backup guy for exactly that purpose.

[sheikalana]

I think is possible but it takes time to recover from that.

[Likes2drive]

My ex wife had no problem, just replaced me with someone else after 17 years of marriage and got married 2 weeks after the divorce

[KrakenAttackin]

Absolutely. Women can turn the "love" switch on and off with great ease.

[Hellur991]

True but just a little bit harder for them emotionally

[Anonymous]

No because girls are immature. A woman can.

[IWILLPLEASEYOU]

I don't think so but if we do not want to be naked and fuck each other then maybe

[laly520]

won't be easy but not impossible to do

[DishLady]

Yes. Happiness can always be around the bend.

[Dargil]

Sure. Married women do it.