One girl, I didn’t reject her friendship, I just went away because deep down I wanted to sleep with her so bad.
we are both religious virgins and I didn’t want her to realise how I sexually felt about her.
she had a really long hair thick hair and she was really short, I felt like fucking the brains out of her.
she was a sensitive person too, which was a turn on.
I honestly never have had such sexual energy towards someone like her even though I didn’t have feelings for her.
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Yes because on closer examination she was bat shit crazy
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Once, I had a mentally retarded girl approach me to be her friend. I suspect that her interest was more romantic than sexual, and she and I had absolutely nothing in common, so I made some excuse to avoid spending time with her.
Nah I have stopped talking to male friends but it was never a rejection
Since around college age I've been told by guys, "I can't just be friends with you." And I can appreciate the honestly in that, though I do miss my friends. It's happened perhaps ten times in my life. Very sad each time to lose that person that I could confide in.
One in particular broke my heart and I cried over it longer than I cried over my divorce, which I'll never understand. But actually once we split as friends we met very nice people along the way (though those were both short term relationships and we never spoke to one another again despite being in common circles). That just tells me that people perceived us to be "like a couple" because we shared so much with one another, even thuogh we were always just friends.
Sometimes even though you're not looking for sexual tension to build it does happen and the guy — the gentlemen — will be up front and tell you "Look… we can't be friends." or they don't like our boyfriend and they back away with something similar to the "I just can't see you with that guy." in my opinion, if a guy does that, don't bug him too much. He's trying to do the right thing for both of you.
Technically, it's slightly easier for women to go through their physiological longing over a guy because no one sees our physiological reaction. Guys… sometimes can't help their physiological reaction and so it's good to know enough to step away. Additionally. guys and girls both experience emotional turmoil over relationships (whether they're friendships or more) and it's important to respect when someone sets a boundary.
Some guys/girls tough it out, thinking that they'll be able to work through the friendship, but it's really painful and causes a lot of misunderstandings along the way.Once this guy who used to call me on the phone every day rejected my friendship because I told him I liked him, he said he liked someone else. I was like that's fine, can we still be friends? But he said he didn't think it was a good idea to be friends with me. So he stopped talking to me and deleted me off Instagram. He weirdly hit me up 4 months later and said he felt bad and wanted to be friends again. I talked to him a bit but I never actually considered him a friend after that, so we lost contact a month later, because I didn't put any effort to reply to him and I never answered his calls lol.
Yes. Most of the time, in fact. There are rare exceptions, but most women don't really want a friend, they want a "platonic boyfriend" who does all the work, gives all the attention, does all the favors, and listens to all her sad stories about other guys.
No, thank you. They want million dollar investments for pennies of return, if that. That's not me. But a LOT of guys are foolishly in such situations, and they make it worse for everyone. It's a major contributor to hoeflation, and they don't even realize they are cutting their own throatsI felt like I was always on the giving end and she was on the receiving end in the friendship. How do most chats happen? The guy texts the girl and she responds. Next day, the guy again texts the girl and she responds. The guy stops texting? The girl doesn't give a shit anymore.
I wanted to see how she would react if I stopped texting her cuz I got those vibes off her. And as I expected, she never returned. And one day, through a common group we were in, she told me casually it's been so long since we texted. I as I had to, asked her why she didn't text me then. No response. That was the end.
I hate girls who think boys are entertainment, to "win them" or like I'm some daily TV show. Like show some effort yourselfI have when it was clear she wanted all of the benefits of having a boyfriend, Without being a girlfriend.. She essentially wanted to lead me on, and use me as a shoulder to cry on when she made poor decisions, Which was SUPER common. The final straw is when her boyfriend, who stabbed her because she had a miscarriage, broke my hand.. I was done with her after that.
Yes, because as much as she tried to hide it, I knew she was in love with me. And since I am married to someone else, I didn’t want to give her hopes for a future that wouldn’t happen. So I ended it. And ending our friendship was ironically proved I truly loved her and wanted nothing other than her happiness
Love, is letting go of what you want.
I have rejected woman's friendship due to various reasons. Some has been related to them only wanting something from me, and others cause I've been informed negative information about them. I have plenty of people in my life that fake people can take a hike.
Just once. I used to say, “You can’t have too many friends!”. I still fundamentally believe that, but you don’t need to be friends with everyone. I worked with a woman who was more than a little strange and had gnarly BO. She seemed to take a liking to me but i avoided her. I never really openly rejected her. In hindsight, that may have been wrong.
A friendship with a woman is different to friendship with a man. A friendship with a man is an alliance, particularly in a work friendship whereas a friendship with a woman always seems to be built on shifting sands.
It is not at all the same thing. It is more froth and bubbles.
Reject friendship? I don’t get that… so never had that experience..
it’s just so natural to hang out and be friends… or.. no not this weekend… let’s hang out next weekend… something like that…
no, it never happened... but our friendships formed with time and were sealed with some important events... so we just became friends... we didn't need to ask for that in most cases...
There is absolutely no benefit I would gain from being friends with a woman.
It's a tough one to answer, because I can be friends with the opposite sex, if they can be just friends too, then no I wouldn't reject their friendship! I do feel though sometimes things get a bit awkward and I have to back away
I wouldn't want to be close with men I don't click with, so never been in that situation of being rejected. I have rejected and removed people who snapped and went insane. It's happened here on gag. But that's the flip of the Q.
No, never. Grew up in a family with only women, and me. Most of my neighbours where girls. Guess I never understood why you would not want female friends.
I don’t do female friends. I’ve rejected 2 outright.
Yes I've rejected more than one woman’s friendship, mainly because I had information about them that was seriously at odds with what how they were portraying themselves, along with a 'gut' feeling about them.
Yeah, for years now.. all the female friends I had started hitting on me at some point and I'm not into the whole " friends first " thing so I figured out maybe just not really have female friends in first place lol..
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