39 years old and from Braintree, Massachusetts, United States
I am not what you would call politically correct. I tend to speak my mind and it tends to catch some people off guard. I guess I'm basically looking for someone that is truly balanced, passionate, someone who tries to look at things Objectively, and someone that enjoys taking care of herself. I am a faithful man, and always plan to be, so I want to keep the passion alive. I take care of myself, and I will never ask for something that I am not willing to give in return! She should be smart, a great communicator, honest, confident...yet not cocky or arrogant. Someone who likes to explore life and try new things. Someone who can make any situation romantic. I have a twisted sense of humor, and I get joy in making a girl laugh to the point she is in tears from laughing so hard. Someone who is affectionate and playful, I still enjoy a good pillow fight, A lady one minute, elegant in a black dress, and jeans with a water hose the next! Someone who can be my partner. Someone who doesn't believe in the expression " I can't!" Although, I don't care how much money she makes, just be employed.(no freeloaders!) Someone who likes to laugh, and can laugh at herself as well. I have a great imagination, and it would be cool to meet someone who is also creative. Someone who respects herself!
A: And my question is: why didn't you make the first move? what stopped you from stapping away from your friends, go up to the poor guy, grab him by the back of the head, and pull him to you? I'll bet that's what he was day dreaming about the whole night!
A: They say first impressions count. he clearly felt the cold chill from you, and may have rethought his realationship with you, and is close to breaking away. if he can't get what he needs from you, he will move on.
A: If the guy is average, or not so hot, men assume the girl is not even remotely interested in the guy. same goes with height, and with good reason, many women want men taller than her...dont ask me why...I know women who are 5'2 to 5'6 and still expect men who are like 6'6women have a reputation for... more
A: Clearly friendship was not what he was looking for, he wanted more. offeriing friendship to a guy who wants romance is like offering a consolation prize to a marathon runner. all that running, and nothing to show for it,