A: Two parents in the home is irrelevant if both are unhappy. It's like a poison and neither of you can give your child the love and affection your child needs if you're marred in a depression. So the real question is if you and your boyfriend broke up, would he still be around? Because it's not... more
A: My gut reaction is that it's sad. It's sad that a 31-year-old can't find anyone else to date. He may say you're mature for your age but there's just no accounting for experience. He's almost twice as old as you. I doubt that he's in love with you as much as what you represent. This isn't to... more
A: You both need to start doing activities separately. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. It's not about finding new things between the two of you or trying new activities to spice up the relationship. It's about looking around the world and finding other people who are also interesting but who... more
A: Okay, well first, it is bothering you. You may not feel guilt in the moment but the fact that you're posting here and asking for advice shows that this behavior does bother you.I can't tell you why you do these things. Anyone who doesn't know you well or know your history is going to be able to... more
A: It's a matter of degrees. You don't have to tell him your love him (even if that's how you feel) because that probably will scare him off. But you can tell him other things like "I feel safe around you," or "I love spending time with you," or you can try to just make compliments on specific... more