A: Not bad at all! If you look at the odds, the "one" is only 1 in a couple billion people in the world. Just because it didn't click between you & 8 guys doesn't mean that's a bad thing! Be picky & patient like the others have said and you'll be glad you did. If you're too busy being in relationships... more
A: It depends on where we were in the relationship. I've never done it so for a while I would tell him it's not for me. I wouldn't leave or anything but I wouldn't be for it. Maybe when I'm feeling adventurous and had been with him for a while I might consider. But in general I don't really want to.
A: The second guy sounds more appealing on many levels. I don't want to get married right now and I'd prefer someone that took things slow and are fun to hang out with. However, the chemistry is really important too. So if I thought I'd found "the one" & had that rush I might consider guy 1.