Ok, first of my name is Ruby. I don't fall for people easily but when I fall, I fall hard. Music, art, God, and my friends are my life. Some day I wish to be both a graphic designer and an art therapist. I had my heart broken and I still love the man who did it. I am working really hard to get my life back and to move on but it is proving to be very hard. My favorite music would have to be rock music. I really can't stand rap or hip hop but some country I can put up with and rarely like. My favorite bands are My Chemical Romance, Paramore, The Pink Spiders, Death Cab for Cutie, Green Day, New Found Glory, Blink-182, Less Than Jake, Red Jumpsuit Apparatus, Good Charlotte (More the old stuff than the new.), Simple Plan, Sences Fail, Evanescence, Fly Leaf, Relient K, The Used, Fall Out Boy, and many, many more. Anything with a punk or pop kinda feel to it I generally like. I like some screamo but not much. I also like "emo" music. Mostly because it helps me to get my feelings out when I am sad. I hate it when people call other people "emos" because they listen to sad music. Everyone gets sad and if you don't then you arn't human. I would love to get to know anyone who wants to take the time to know me. I don't like stereotypes and the people I really don't like are the people who stereotype themselves and others. I don't like people who are full of themselves or that cuss or talk dirty (Sometimes it's ok.) all the time but other than that I would love to talk to you!
A: Friends with benefits is always asking for trouble. You wouldn't have sex with your best girlfriend would you? I have found that if you treat your guy friends the same as you treat your girl friends, you have far less heartbreak and issues. You're giving your body to him and it seems as if he may be... more
A: I can't really answer this question for you. If it was my situation, based on how the girl and my man acts is how I would base who I believe. Does the girl have a reputation? And the fact that he told you about the oral seems to show me that he wants to tell you the truth. Why would he tell you... more
A: Well, I am going through a break-up right now that sounds very similar. I know how bad it hurts. My ex left me, apparently, because of his Mom not wanting us together. It hurt really bad and I see him getting hurt a lot by girls. What I do to keep busy is listen to music and draw. I am very artsy of... more
A: I see. Well, the only thing you can do is try to realise the reason you broke it off was a good reason. It's better this way and you will find the man that is perfect for you. I know it's hard to believe now, but it will get better I promice. I am reminded of a song. "Every rose has its thorns, just... more
A: Whatsername- Green DayThat's What You Get- ParamoreWe Are Broken- ParamoreFor a Pessimist I'm Pretty Optimistic- ParamoreI'd Do Anything- Simple PlanAddicted- Simple PlanFamous Last Words- My Chemical RomanceI Don't Love You- My Chemical RomanceIt's Not a Fashion Statement It's a Death Wish- My... more
Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
First the guy would come and pick me up at my house. He would have flowers. Then we would go out and eat chinese food because he knows that it is my favorite. Then we would go and see a movie. During the movie he would ASK to hold my hand. We would go for ice cream afterwards. When he takes me home he kisses me gently on my porch, after he walks me to the door, and calls when he makes it home.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
He would know that I was a shy but sweet girl. He would know that I really liked him if I was out on a date with him. He would know that I believed in love. He would know that I was funny and fun to hang out with. He would know that I was sensitive. He would know that I was unique. He would know that I respected him if he respected me. And he would know not to break my heart. <3