Because his girlfriend might have been insecure or he didn’t want his girlfriend to feel insecure by him having a girl friend or girl friends , Most relationships are based off of trust and respect for each other , what you don’t want your partner doing to you? , should be the same thing you do for them, if not? Your relationship probably won’t make it the long haul period. Most guys’ will stay loyal and faithful to a girl that stays loyal and faithful to him , he will give his heart to her the same way he wants her to give her heart to him. Distancing himself from opposite sex friends , to show respect to his partner, he doesn’t hate his girl friends , he just doesn’t want to draw in any drama into his current relationship to show respect to her. Almost every girl I have got into a relationship with? never liked the fact that I have girl friends’ , she would spy on my social media and be like Who is that? Where do you know her from? Did you fuck her? Did you kiss her? Blah blah blah , Guys’ do this shit as well , so it’s best just to distance yourself from those friends to show respect to your partner if you want your partner to respect you , unless you want to hear constant negativity that you are being up to No good. Some people have insecurities and get jealous easy over certain things , it mainly stems down to past experiences that they encountered in their lifetime or with an ex that betrayed them , making them have a harder time trusting in someone new. It’s best to always wear your partners’ shoes before making decisions if you want your relationship to last with that person , don’t just assume you know the answer , it’s best to look at things from both sides of the perspective when getting into a committed relationship with someone.
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He’s just a coward. People who act like this aren’t worth it. How do you know be unblocked you? Did he reach out? I would tell him to go away and block him.
Im not saying someone owes you a full on exclamation as to why they blocked you. But it’s cowardly. He should have been a adult and told you. But it seems maybe he wanted you for something and didn’t get his way, maybe his girlfriend had a problem with him having female friends? It could be anything. I can’t read his mind. Some people are unstable as well.
But. If he can’t even tell you he was blocking you and acted like a adult. Just to unblock you and act like it never happened is cowardly.
That really seems so obvious and I am surprised that you even need to ask this question.
What happens when you start a new relationship? Right! you make sure that the traces of connections to other women disappear, just in case the new girlfriend is jealous or he does not want to know that he is double timing her with other women. Best policy for that is to either delete all information about other girls from social media or keep those contacts safely secured elsewhere.
In his case, he thought that blocking you was enough until she was gone from his life. That is exactly what happened.
First — and I mean this in the kindest way possible — who cares if he unblocked you at all? The fact that he just set you aside that way shows a lack of respect for you and you shouldn’t pay him any kind now.
Respect yourself and ignore him. You don’t deserve to be “switched on/off” like a light every time this guy goes through a relationship.
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Most likely, his girlfriend doesn't like you and demanded he block you. Once she's gone, there's no longer a reason to block you.
Before I can answer that I would need to know the relationship you had with him AND whether or not he had the same or different view of said relationship.
For example, you could have seen it as friends, and he might have thought there was something more to it, in which case he could have been worried you might say something to her which would jeopardise things.
There is one OTHER option of course. He could simply be someone who is very selfish. Let me explain:-
I have known people of both sexes before to shut everyone else out when they get a new friend (nothing romantic) because they are scared of other friendships brewing which might leave them left alienated.
His now ex-GF might have been a control freak. My best friend since I wa four is female. I have occasionally dated girls who wanted me to block her / not talk to her. Guess who won, the friend of 20+ years who is like a big sister to me or the girl I'd gone on two or three dates with?
His girlfriend probably imposed blocking all the girls that she felt where competition!
Odds are he either told you he had feelings for you and she made him block you, she asked him to block all other girls than her, or he blocked you and other girls out of respect for her. Probs one of the latter two
His girlfriend saw pictures of you, and was intimidated by your gigantic boobs. So she made him block you.
Then they broke up, and your friend unblocked you, so he could hunt through your social media looking for cleavage pics.
Because you're the safe option. He will come keep coming back; reminiscing with you to keep you close. I've been in this situation. Call it off
The same reason women do that kind of thing. It's a preventative thing to clear out anyone his partner might be jealous about before they become a problem. .
I mean, who cares right? Wouldn't waste my time wondering why. ;)
his girlfriend forced him, while together, as @integrale77 wrote here.
sounds like his girlfriend was insecure and he didn't want to make waves in the relationship. Consider it a complement on your desirability and appearance.
Because he knows his girlfriend was jealous and he prefers not taking risks
Sounds like respect to the woman he was dating?
Move on. You're his second choice/rebound. Cut the ties.
You probably say inappropriate things too often. He was just eliminating that potential problem.
Could be many reasons one is perhaps he wanted to show his girlfriend that hw blocked all other girls like many guys i know do.
He is a man. What do you think is happening?
HIS SAD WAY TO WARN YOU ABOUT THE TYPE OF MAN TO AVOID!
Sounds like he likes you.
He's childish.
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