If you had to choose, would you rather date someone significantly more attractive than you are, or significantly less attractive?

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Significantly More Attractive

Significantly Less Attractive

[DishLady]

Because "attractive" is subjective, there's no way for me to comment in a definitive way. I've always considered the men I've been with attractive. If I didn't feel attraction (which usually does start with some physical signs and then grows deeper as we get to know one another) then I wouldn't be there — and vice versa.


And also because I tend to veer on the modest side I've never thought of myself as being significantly more attractive than anyone. Everyone has something beautiful about them if you just take the time to look.

[Anonymous]

Significantly less attractive.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Why less attractive? More chance they'll stick around?

[Opinion Owner]

I get easily jealous so I wouldn't be as jealous if there is not much competition.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Do you actually date less attractive people in real life?

Is it less stressful for you that way?

[Opinion Owner]

Nope I don't seek out less attractive people. Like the person I'm with now is not less attractive than I am. We're on the same level. I just wouldn't want someone who was more attractive than I am. You didn't make same attractiveness as a choice so I went with that one.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

If same attractiveness was a choice, that what everyone would have picked. I was curious about whether people would mostly rather go up or down.

Are you married?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh ok. Makes sense. And nope. Just in a relationship atm.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

I was just wondering because you're 30-35, which is like marriageable age.

How jealous do you get with your significant other?

[Opinion Owner]

A tad bit jealous at times. We're getting married soon though. He just hasn't proposed yet but he's going to soon.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

So it's not like you start screaming or crying if you see your fiance talking to a hot chick.

[Opinion Owner]

Nope. I wouldn't go that far. I would maybe fuss about it when we are alone but that's as far as it would go.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

I asked another question by the way. I can't post it I guess because I'm too new

[Opinion Owner]

What was it?

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

It's in my profile. It's the question I asked right before this one.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh ok

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

It's a dumb question.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Did you answer the question? Was that you?

[Opinion Owner]

No I didn't.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Okay thanks.

[TommyMountainFigure]

From my experience, less attractive women are generally better in bed, but my wife changed that view completely for me. She's hotter than me and great..

[Anonymous]

I'm a hideous beast so significantly more is just average to most people

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Fair enough.

[Pinay_ako]

it doesn’t matter. What’s more attractive to me might be less attractive to others. What counts is I am attracted to the person! And it’s mutual!

[PeachyPie93]

I tend to date guys the same as me looks wise. I would not want to date guys uglier than me because I just wouldn't be attracted and if they were better looking it would make me insecure.

[dustybiker2]

I aimed for someone I could live with over curb appeal. I lucked out.

[molonski2]

Again.. Who has the badge to make the superficial rating?

[PapaJedi]

Significantly more attractive, I have money to offer already 😂

[Fireguy17]

It depends on her personality over looks any day.
Beauty fades, dumb is forever.

[elizamichale1]

more attractive

[Unit1]

Duh, significantly more attractive

[LiamJHayden]

Unless she is morbidly obese I do not care.