A guy I’m dating invited me to join him to the spa to go swimming or to the sauna. He goes there alone quite frequently. Is he afraid that I’m fat or that I look ugly without makeup? I really don’t want to go
Don't do something you feel insecure of doing. Ever! As for his reason wanting to go to the spa, it could just be an innocent thought, since he enjoys going there and wants you to accompany him. Believe me if he thought you were ugly, fat or anything else, he would have left you and never would suggest a spa. If he pays for it, then go and enjoy yourself!
It sounds like you're overthinking it, I'd say he just thought it would be something you'd enjoy and want to do with him. If you aren't comfortable with it then tell him you have other plans but would like to meet up somewhere else at another time. I highly doubt he thinks you're fat or unattractive, just enjoy yourself and relax. Good luck with everything!
If you don't want to go, don't. But if you think rationally here a moment, if he thought unpleasant things about you he wouldn't want to spend time with you firstly, and second most certainly not a spa if he thought you ugly. That leaves you with it can only mean he likes both you and your body.
u Why would he be concerned if u are fat if he could tell whenever he sees u as for makeup possibly but I doubt it if he tends to go by himself also if these are concerns u have how do u expect this situation to work out in the first place
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He wouldn’t invite you if that’s what he thinks of you. So go if you want to go, don’t if you don’t want
It’s nice he’s asked you to go on a date with him to the spa you should be happy he’s invited you
Maybe he just wants to do something he likes doing with you. If your first thought is that it's because you're fat and ugly then that's something inside you that you should work on.
Yeah, he made this elaborate plan to see you without makeup. A day at the spa! You are out of your mind. Just go and enjoy.
He MIGHT want to see you with less clothing on, Benefit Of The Doubt and all that?
Girl, are you serious? If he truly thought you were fat or ugly, would he be dating you right about now? He wants you to go with him to enjoy each other’s company. Just go with him.
I think you’re jumping to conclusions. Do you think those things about yourself? Anyway, he probably invited you to relax with him. I think it’s nice. 😊
Nothing complicated about it. He wants to see you with less clothing.
Wow you're so insecure lol. He doesn't like you though that's for sure
many women enjoy going to the spa, so maybe he thinks you'll enjoy it. Maybe he sees other women there enjoying it
I thunk you should go with him it will be great. I dont think he wants to look at your body.
i was afraid too in swimming pool and sauna because i have no balls but i dont care now
Shit, I'd go with you and haven't even seen you. But I'm sure he doesn't think that. Even if you ar\e plump, what can I say, a lot of us like that.
He wants to spend time with you, doing the same activities, why don't you wanna go
What the? It's a spa! What do you mean? He wants to share the spa experience with you.
that is generous go once see if it is fun.
m u dont want to go then say no to him
easy
He's trying to spend time with you
Cause he wants to spend some time with you
He Gay
He is into you
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