Yesterday my friends with benefits told me he will notify me if we can meet today. He didn't. Can I be mad at him?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

I'm gonna assume you literally meant what you wrote:

"he will notify me if we can meet today."

ok.

"He didn't."

I guess that means he can't meet today.

"Can I be mad at him?"

No. He couldn't meet with you, therefore he didn't notify you of being able to meet with you, per what he said before.

If he said he will notify you if he can't meet today, or that he will notify you of whether or not he can meet today, then sure, you can be mad.

If you wanted him to notify you if he could not meet today, then you probably should have made that clear to him.

"If I can, i'll let you know" is something I've said to people before. but yeah, people get upset if you end up not being able to do whatever it is you said you might be able to do.. even if you made yourself clear. so nowadays, if I don't know, I just say "no. don't count on it," even if I might be able to. iono man, some people just don't understand that other people have responsibilities and prior commitments.

[Asker]

Thank you so much.

[Fireguy17]

I would say more like disappointed, not mad.
Maybe he just forgot, it happens, or maybe not.
Ask him.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If your boom boom buddy was unable to do a little boom boom you should find a backup boom boom buddy for when your main boom boom buddy is unavailable.

[Peridot25]

Boom boom buddy 😂😂

[Static_In_The_Attic]

@Peridot25 I’m glad you liked that & I heard that saying a long time ago.

[SueShe]

You mean that he wanted to fornicate with you today and he left you wondering?

Well, a friend with benefits is just that. A person you just use to copulate with and not somebody that you are in a deeper relation with. There is honestly no reason why you should be mad at him. It is not something that is really that important that it warrants you to be upset or mad.

There will be more opportunities for you to do what you are doing when you are together. It does not really have to be today or tomorrow. Just look forward to the next time and don't give too many thoughts about it. It is not worth it to ruin a day just because a missed fornication.

[LaurenM1997]

He’s probably away having sex with another chick

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

You can. As - if you are asking about your ability of being mad. But do you want to be mad at him? If you have to ask us, maybe you don’t want. I wouldn’t be mad.

[TommyMountainFigure]

He didn't let you down in ANY way. It just sounds to me like you want to be in a relationship when it suits you, and friends with benefits all other times..

It doesn't work like that!

[TommyMountainFigure]

Of course. IF you want to take the lateral view.. you can be angry at anything you like! It just wouldn't make you right!

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

What do you expect with friends with benefits? 🤔

[sheikalana]

He's just a friend's with benefits you should not expect anything from him.

[KrakenAttackin]

Nah, cum dumpsters aren't allowed to be mad.

[Pterodon]

I love this answer

[Greenville]

Nah, more like pussy cream dumpsters aren’t allowed to be mad

which is what you are

[kickrocs]

You’re a pussy cream dumpster

[Bklynbadboy12]

No don't be mad yet. He might have a good effort nit calling you. Hit him up tell him you're just worried about him cause he never hit you back you thought something happened to you

[jahaims]

Mad about what? You let someone use you as a cum rag. They don't care

[Asker]

He actually respects me. You don't know him.

[jahaims]

Whatever you have to tell yourself lol

[Greenville]

Women use men as a pussy cream dumpster
And vagina cream, cum and squirt sticker/branch
Goes both ways

[Anonymous]

Get a little black book and tell him he has to wait in line next time.

[Anonymous]

Of course, you can be mad but is it worth it, probably not.

[Asker]

I wouldn't be mad but he agreed from the start that he will tell me in advance. So I shouldn't tell him that I am a little upset? I will pretend that I don't care, I guess.

[Zayeem]

U just quoted "friend with benefit",, so he didn't come for his benefit.

[Anonymous]

Move on today you’re being used as meat those things never work out

[Asker]

All I wanted was sex from him, but he does things that he shouldn't do. He drives me home, he pays for me, he talks with me everyday, he wants me to meet with him and his friends. And he wants to cuddle after sex.

[Opinion Owner]

Shame on you too

[Asker]

Why? I don't want to have a relationship right now because I want to focus on my self and he is not looking for a relationship either. I want sex because I can't stay without sex for a long period of time.

[Greenville]

Men are used as meat all the time

[Anonymous]

One of the beautiful " benefits" he has is not having to tie himself down to you. I think you are starting to realize that like many women, this lifestyle is not for you

[DishLady]

“Can I”? Are you mad at him?

[Asker]

I am a little upset, because he is the kind of guy who usually do what he says. I think I am a little used to him doing that.

[DishLady]

So then be upset. No need to ask a pack of strangers’ permission to justify your feelings.

If he’s mister reliable as you mentioned then perhaps also consider he either got caught up in something OR perhaps has lost interest, which happens.

[Asker]

I thought I can't be upset about anything he does because we are only friends with benefits. That's why I asked this question.

[DishLady]

Your feelings are what they are. Just be honest with yourself and with the guy. Nobody’s perfect.

[Pterodon]

No because all you are is pussy

[Greenville]

All you are is dick

[Sabretooth]

he don't owe you shit.

[Sabretooth]

that's the deal with such a relationship.

[Anonymous]

You should have backups if one is not available