Men, what skills would you like a potential SO to bring to the relationship that are not apart of her personality or career?
“Points?” Like in an athletics competition? I’m
Not sure things work precisely that way.
Of course if you have a kind heart and a good head on your shoulders a lady will know to trust and rely on you. If you’re skatty and wishy-washy with your priorities and other things then that’s unappealing.
Also, it’s important to wait to be invited to do things for a lady, especially in today’s society where women want to do some things alongside their man.
Lastly, don’t just show up. Some women find that creepy and too intense.
My wife has informed me that she finds comfort and satisfaction in the fact there are many skills I can perform that she cannot. This can be simple household repairs & maintenance to my ability to navigate and plan trips which is something she simply cannot manage. The fact that I can offer a sense of security for her and our children based on a lifetime of skills & training to protect us and/or respond to emergencies is something she appreciates.
As a woman, I expect you to be able to be a good parent to our children. Keep them clean, fed, and happy. You should dress well and have the art of femininity mastered.
House chores, laundry, finances, and all the rest are mutually shared responsibilities and so I have no expectations there. I’m the chef in the family so most cooking is mine by default anyhow.
Are skills really that important? I get how it can improve a relationship and make things interesting depending on the skill they bring to the table, but is there really such a need for importance on it? How they make you feel, and what they do to support you, and how they learn to understand your language I feel has much more importance over what skill they bring into the relationship. But if you wanna talk skill Id just say it would be nice if she can make food? What man doesn't appreciate a woman that knows how to make delicious food?
not really... of course it's more convenient and some skills can be really hot... but it doesn't change anything...
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If a girl isn't good at cooking and housekeeping it's not a deal breaker for me, as long as she tries her best and has no issue with doing it. But a girl who's a really good cook and keeps things around the house organized and clean definitely gets a lot more points from me.
u they can definitely appreciate it... but they're not a big deal either
girls were into me, before they knew I could do some of these... so it is more of a bonus really
Yes I love it! Especially if he can fix my car cuz I hate having to take it to the mechanic. I think both genders need some basic knowledge and skills of the things you listed
I don't know how to do any of those things 🤷🏻♂️ and honestly don't want to learn how.
I would imagine not being a scallop on the hull of the economy is all you need.
All thar you listed are honorable higher educated trades. So don’t get the issue… doesn’t have to be college. It’s just college is most popular. Maybe that’ll change.
They’re useful skills to have, but they wouldn’t be a reason to date someone. If I already liked someone and they happened to have those skills, that would be great.
No, I don’t really care about that stuff lol
Means nothing to me. I would rather a man with skills and knowledge in music and literature.
@DrPepper12 I think guys should have some of those skills so as not to be 'helpless' when he needs to do some or at least one of those things in an emergency basis thing.
Only skills I need from a woman is her to know how to be a woman, treat a man, deal with children and cook.
A women should also have to possess certain skills that women are supposed to have or men should not either
Make her laugh and she's yours forever
the answer is yes
