Is it ok to have sex with a 45 year old woman if you're 23 years old?

haha sure. Hey, if you got those feelings go for it.

its okay. but kind of gross.

I don't see a problem with it. Its what ever makes you both happy age is only a number. Who cares what other people think it should be just between you and her!

no its not ok because that sends out a bad image for you and her .Plus that makes her a cougar and you will ruin her chances of finding another guy if you and her don't work out.You are 25-30 right? you can get all the girls you want but its best if you don't have sex with a 45 year old woman.

hahahhahahhahahhahahhahahahhahahahhahaha. NO! unless you wanna be the new demi moore and ashton kutcher.

if you really like her then yes it is o.k

if it feels right

Actually, I understand where you are coming from - you are looking for a teacher to show you about sex - because you feel an other woman will have more patience and be more gentle with you. But the age difference is too great! Imagine - as women age so does their skin texture, boob sag (not perky anymore), you look more like their child than their lover - and if she has children from a previous relationship - the children will resent you and her both. The other factor to remember - is that for a man or a woman as they grow older so does their level of activity. Whereas if you only look at the sexual area - a woman in her 40's has a much higher sex drive (not all women do by the way) - a lot of this has to do with the fact that most women have had a hysterectomy or a tubaligation so that they can't get pregnant - therefore the sex would be more enjoyable. Personally, as a woman 45 years old - dating a 64 year old - I know what I'm talking about - as well as having parents that are 15 years apart Mom 70 - Dad - 85. Good luck - but do yourself a favor - date women no older than 6 years older than you.

If he isn't married and has no girlfriend, I see nothing wrong with it.

Damn, I hope at 45 I can still get 23 year old ass!

Hey you're both consenting adults it's completely up to you.......remember age is only a number!

Listen Hunnie!!!! Its your decision!!! If you are into him, GO for it.....By all means!!!! Age ain't nothing but a number once your into your 20's!!!! The love of my life is 37 and I am 26 I never thought that I could be sooo into an older man, but in all honesty if you can have a relationship, friendship with a older Man, it speaks highly of you!!! For you have to be a mature Young Lady to have things in common with someone that is 45! N he must be a hottie!!!! Some of them older ones are looking better and better with age...Huh? Go for it Ma!!

I really don't see a problem with that, you're both consenting adults and if you find each other attractive and want to have sex, what's the big deal?

On the contrary to what some youngsters here might think, people have sex at all ages and at 45 a woman can be VERY attractive! ;-)

So if you like her, who cares if she's 45? Go for it!

She must be one good-looking cougar/ MILF, it's all legal, so it's up to you to decide if it's O.K. or not.

I don't think so that's a little more than twice your age don't do it

If you think she's hot why not?