When I started going on this site; I thought I would be reaching people 18 and older. Now There are a lot of important questions that are being asked by these teenager's, but I think the question's are getting much to creepy. A few hours ago; a 14 year old girl posing as a 17 year old; ask about giving a good blow job. I believe that maybe the administrators of this web site; might consider baning some of these kid's questions. What do you think?
Update: FYI - The reason I know she was 14 is, because a few day's back she asked a medical question. When I said she can go to the doctor by herself; being that she didn't want her parent's to know; she message me and said she was 14.
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Update: It's not just the 14 year old. A 16 year old asking this question is a bit too much. Look birth control, or first time fears questions are o.k. It's the oral, anal, and masturbating question's that's are too much.
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Update: In this same sexuality page. There is a girl; under age asking if it's slutty to send naked pic's to a guy she hardly knows. Legally that's child pornography. That's what I mean by crossing the line; between helpful and criminal
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Update: I think some of the people posting there answer's have misunderstood my intention. I am not attacking underage girls only, and defending what the underage guys are saying, but the majority of these questions are coming from underage girl's.
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Update: I also never said anybody should be banned from this website. I said the question's are gettng out of hand, and I wanted your opinion. I wondered the responsibility and maybe the legal aspects of us answering these sexually charged question's to minors.
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OKayy dude I'm "underage" as you would say. I know where theese girls are coming from. You have some good points. But most of theese girls are just curious they want to know what to expect when they are ready to take on that responsibility. Yeah the girl sending naked pictures is a little much yeah but that is her choice. maybe she asked that question because she is starting to regret it. I know I made a lot of mistakes like that. I was called a slut all three years I was in middle school because I made one little mistake with one little guy that went and ran his mouth. this girl was either probley thinking about sending pictures or already did and was looking for some help. maybe she couldn't go to someone who knew who she was. you need to stop judging so quickly on people you don't know. I'm sure the last thing theese girls need is to be f***ing "harased" by some old ass guy in his 30's. The question was probley meant for someone under 18. Here is a good reality check: Not everybody chooses to stay a virgin until they are married even though it is what they should do! And they damn sure should not be f***ing judged for what they choose to do in their personal life. Have a good day, Goodbye.
I couldn't have said it better myself! AWesome job tellint this dude the truth!! Thanks for sticking up for the f****** "underaged"..you're awesome! - 2 days ago
well you know what as long as they are getting the proper answer that they need its better that there asking that just doing. Some teens start of sex way sooner than others and I think that its awsome that they feel safe enough
You know what, you're right man. These kids these days are such whores, it's not even funny. I'm not even that much older than them and I'm amazed by how times have changed. There's no self-respect anymore. They think it's cute to ask about giving amazing blow jobs so they can go suck off some little boy in their seventh period math class. What the hell? When I was 14, I was excited to just be NEAR the boy I liked. What happened to that innocence? Kissing and holding hands used to be orgasmic and now it's about getting head, condoms, and becoming strippers. I don't even know what to think of it. It's not even parents to blame either, it's seriously society's openness with sexuality. There's basically no limit. Sexual innuedos are everywhere, even in Disney films. It's making me sick.
Half these people taking offense are the little ass kids pretending to be older. Stop being so damn lame. Having sex doesn't make you an ADULT. That's something you take your time learning as time progresses. I don't get what happened and when. I'm just glad I'm not a part of that group of young people who don't know how to act. It's not even just sex. It's drugs and alcohol too. All that shit is completely overrated. You rush into everything and never fully get to enjoy it. If you do everything by the time you're 12, what the hell are you going to have to look forward to? There used to be standard ages for when things usually happen, now you have pregnant 10 and 11 year olds.
It's terriblly sad and infuriating. The world is seriously coming to an end because the future generations are either being aborted, ODing, getting STDs, getting knocked up, or being shot up in gangs.
Holy shit.... you are 100000000% correct. If these little kids are our future, then I'm f***ing scared.. I'm only 17 but hey I know my limits and the limits people SHOULD have. Your so right about everything you said and don't worry girl, your not the only one that feels that way. - 2 days ago
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Thank you. our future is shot to hell. I'm in school, trying to do the college thing and get a good job and make my mother proud as well as make myself happy. everybody expects the NBA or modeling or that a money tree will magically appear in their yard. I don't really think kids have any real aspirations anymore and the ones that do, sorry, but you're being overshadowed by the negative vibe. it's sad and discouraging, but it's even more reason to be ahead of the game and smarter and focused. - 2 days ago
Curiosity killed the cat, but satisfaction brought it back? Okay, so the kids are asking a bit too grown up questions, but think about the sexual educational program in schools now. Middle schools get STARS, highschools all get the lectures, and you don't think that's bound to peak their curiosity?
Who else are they going to talk to? Their teachers? (mortifying) Their friends? (embaressing that they aren't mature enough to know that) Their boyfriends? ("like - drop dead") Their parents? (grounded). Of course they would come to an annoynmous site for those things.
You are speaking like a father figure or a potential worried boyfriend, then thinking from a 14year olds point of view. which isn't wrong in the slightest, in fact, it is incredibly right considering the nature of the site and the questions being asked, but to say it is getting out of hand is wrong. Do you remember your hormones chaning and going wild and all of that seeming out of control? Do you remember your parents thinking what you kids were doing was WAY more risque than they ever did at your age?
When I was in middleschool we had 6 girls drop out between 7th and 8th grade because they were prenant. I would rather have the girls asking akward questions hear, and maybe having a nice soul let them down gently that it isn't age appropriate behavior and cautioning them of what would happen then have them get pregnant with no advice or having some other issues.
To the guys, theguys in middle school and highschool aren't mature either. Do you think they could support the ramifications of those decisions to lead an overtly sexual life? They won't listen to their parents or teachers about it. Their friend's all glorify it. Be blessed as an older, male rolemodel you can teach them some respect and dignity for themselves, their relationships, and their girls BECAUSE you are a stranger on a random site.
you see after the resposes to this messed up question this person is no longer on this site.i don't think its wrong for underage girls to ask about sex on here.girls and some guys are curious and they want to know.i don't know why this person has a problem with what everyone else is asking.
im 17 and a virgin planning on staying one til marriage and I do think its sad 12,13,14 year old girls are handing their virginity out like candy, like, come on SERIOUSLY? seriously. Get a fuking hold of yourself, sex should be between an ADULT COUPLE in a loving marriage or at least relationship and believe me I wasent "raised" this way, my sister/guardian wouldn't give 2 shits if I had sex but I have more fuking respect for myself. Yes I know this is the 21st century but its fuking ridiculous that there are more STD's then ever before and the teen pregnancy has gone over board and this is how unnecessary abortions happen, when people who don't give a shit just kill their baby like there's nothing wrong with it. I don't think they should ban the people but for god sakes don't be 12 and ask about a bj, graduate high school before you even let a penis NEAR YOU. Also if your gonna have sex, don't be a fuking dumbass and be like "i didn't know I had to take the pill everyday!" WTF?!?! "i didn't know I was suppose to put the condom on right" give me a fuking break. Be on the pill and use a condom if your gonna have sex for god's sakes.
Yeah, so they shouldnt bitch about when they find out they're preggo, with tons of std's and end up having an abortion. - 15 days ago
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girls are curious about that kind of stuff at a young age. at 14 I had my older bro's girl friends talkin about it to me, but I'm sure there are a lot of 14 year old girls who are curious, and just go have sex and fool around to find out vs. tlakin about it. I think it is way healthier to talk about it, then to just pretend like it isn't happening. at least you can tell them, dude, be safe, at 23 I don't even give oral if I don't know the guy, even then still wrap it. you don't talk about it, the 14 year olds will go look for the 16 year old boys who are just wanting to get laid, and might not be being safe about it.
Ok Mr. Question Asker. YOU'RE BEING A BIT OF AN ASS! The comments you have made on some of these UNDERAGED girls responses (the WHOLE reason you posted this question WAS to get responses right?) are just plain f***ing rude. And HELL YA I'm being rude right now! After what you're saying to some of these girls you deserve it
Moving to your question. You seem to be running on an assumption that all these girls are a bunch of underaged whores! I'm repeating someone by saying this but for some of these girls this is as close to sex ed as they ever get! Now whether or not you answer this 14yo's question about a blowjob, if she's made up her mind she's most likely gonna do it. Now she can go and google search some porn and a bunch or nasty websites on it, or she could ask here. Which do you figure has a higher possibility of keeping her safer and actually offering her some useful information? If she's gonna do it she's gonna do it, but at least her there are a lot of good people who when they see 'under 18' whether or not they answer her question, make sure she's remembering the risks! Porn sure as hell ain't gonna teach her that!
I also have issues with the fact that you seem to be putting all of the blame on females and thank you very much but we're not the only ones, boys just discuss it elsewhere. I notice more underaged girls ask there questions in here than boys. I believe there are a few reasons for that; 1. That kind of talk with MOST (not to discriminate) groups of girl friends (seperated words) is VERY taboo and a lot of girls are uncomfortable asking her mother or aunt how to give a bj. Where as guys 2. Not only more freely talk about such stuff with their friends but ALSO even within there family more so in some circumstances. Think about it, it's a lot more appropriate for a male to make a sexual comment than a female, even at family gatherings! Now why do ya think that is? 3. Let's thank the media! Think about that for a bit. How many things do we see everyday that portray girls as sex queens (or other similar things)? And what about for guys? What's your tally? There is a ton of pressure on girls now a days, at the very least, to just be good at everything. and when ya tie that into my previous statement?
Anyhow my fingers are tired. I may come up with more but my overall point for tonight? I'm a girl. I'm underaged. I can legally have sex with anyone. I have questions. I'm not the only one who fits most(can legally have sex might vary)/all of my previous descriptive points. Get over it.
Um. Actually, you can't legally have sex with anyone. Also, please make sure you don't swear so much and be as offensive as you were in this answer in future answers or questions. Thank you. - 21 days ago
Interesting question. The questions about masturbation aren't all bad, it IS healthy ya know. But something like "How can you give a great bj" is just unnessacery. -Nobody- should be asking things like that on a site like this. If they wanna know, there's a thing called GOOGLE. SERIOUSLY PEOPLE. Btw you did say they should be banned :P "I believe that maybe the administrators of this web site; might consider baning some of these kid's questions." Alsooo. They give sex ed in fith grade, and I've known about "getting it on"(XD) since first grade. I was six and knew around 30 positions. My nephew came home yesterday, and said somebody at school "made me take out my pee pee". He's in first grade. Why wouldn't he know this isn't acceptable? I think it's a lot better if they learn stuff like this early on, the world is strange these days.
I totally agree with you! Too many younger aged children are allowed on this site! What I don't get is this.you can tell by their immature questions and verbage usually of the age, and yet they lie abouth their true age? Who knows, maybe we are on the wrong site?
I think that you are right I have read some questions from under age girls that are way too mature for them.hell even for me lol. But really at that age I was still home watching cartoons these girls and guys want to grow up before their time. Enjoy childhood as much as possible cause once you cross that bridge to Adulthood their is no turning back.no matter how many time machine blueprints you come up with.