so, recently my girlfriend came over. I know she really wants to kiss and everything, but I have no idea how to like lean in or get it started. I just feel really awkward. then when we do kiss, she's told me that like I don't kiss long enough. so basically I'm having some problems here haha. any ideas on what could help?
i have the opposite problem. I cnt kiss my boyfriend. well, if I rly rly rly try. I find the guts. but, I want to SO BAD, and nerves just make me hold back. I feel bad because I know the littlest peck on his cheek would totally make his day. HELP?!?!
I think if you really push yourself through the awkard moments it'll help bunches. Unless you practice it's always going to be awkard. And it seems like your girlfriend is up for anything, and she'll hold on for any bumbs along your way. Confidence is key and she'll be attracted to whatever as long as you're confident with it. Just lean in and go for it is the best advice I can give. Hope it helps :).
omgsh you sound like my boyfriend ! lol well what I would like my boyfriend to do (im jst too shy to do it) is to just start the kiss, us girls will take it from there. don't be shy. relax. go with the flow. i really hope this helps you :)
well, um my boyfriend duz the same thing. I dnt actually tell him the kisses arnt long enuf I thnk tht wuld b rude but umm most likely you arnt gonna read ths bt the best advice I culd giv you since I'm going threw tht well ths is wut I wuld wnt my boyfriend to do I'm jus scared to tell him lol but anyway the best advice I can gv you is to discuss it. make it a laugh thing. dnt b too pressured to kiss her jus joke around abt it and eventually jus kiss her. no biggy. yes, girls do love long kisses so try to make it a litle long but dude if you cnt breathe then stop bt if you can dnt stop lol try to let her stop 1st k hun?
just go slow. And don't be stiff. relax and do whatever feels right. To be honest, I didn't make out with anyone til I was 18. I was terrified on if I was doing it right. but allll it takes is practice. THen its no biggie at all. so just dive in!
you're trying too hard. make it soft and slow, you be the initiator but let her control the length of the kiss, then you will get a better idea of what she likes. if you know that she wants you two to kiss then try catching her off guard. the first time my boyfriend kissed me we were parked outside the mall after a movie. we were just sitting there in the car. I looked over to see if something was wrong and then he just swooped in and kissed me. it is still the most memorable kiss I've ever had. it was so romantic, in it's own little quirky way, and it just stole my breath and made my heart flutter, just like in the movies.
Well, first of all, don’t feel bad. Kissing doesn’t come as easily to some people as others, and just because it feels awkward now doesn’t mean it can’t be great the next time…you just need a little help : ).
I’d have to say that nothing is more awful than a kiss that’s basically a lean in and peck, with bodies far apart and eyes open! (not accusing you of this big blunder, but for the sake of my point lol) And yet, you don’t want to go the other extreme and start feeling her all over while shoving your tongue violently down her throat. Here’s a few tips for ya.
1. When you’re initiating the kiss, don’t start at the lips. The best kisses begin as a hug of some sort…for example, a nice warm embrace, and then she looks up at you and smiles and you squeeze her tighter and go in for it…closing your eyes as you go.
2. Remember that kissing isn’t just about the lips. Keep your hands busy! That doesn’t mean dirty, but pull her in close to you, slide your hands around just underneath her shirt (loved it when my guy did that) and maybe play with her hair a little.
3. Don’t be afraid to get a little creative. Try different stuff—catch her off guard from behind and start at her neck and then go for the lips. That’s always a winner! Unexpected kisses are like a gift from heaven : )
Good luck! If you need more tips, or if you have questions about all that, just comment or send me a message : )
Lol I like this question. I take it you haven't kissed very much. ha! Okay here's a good practice for you. Kiss the back of your hand with little pecks, and then kiss a little longer with a little suction so that there's a little suction release noise when you finish the smack and lift up. Do that again but then let your tongue touch your skin as you kiss one slow one after the other sometimes making it last longer as you make little light sucks but not taking your lips off until you finally let up. Practice this for awhile at different times whenever you get the chance. You should get to be a good kisser from this practice in a short time because this is exactly how you kiss a girl except you'll be kissing her face and on her lips. If you want you can first kiss her cheeks, or nose and then finally her lips and just hold it there like 3-5 seconds before you release her lips with that little suction release noise. You don't like just walk up to her and start kissing though lol. You kiss when you've been holding her close, looking into her eyes, and then when facing her move closer and closer of your face closer and closer - just like in the movies until your lips finally touch. Your arms can be around her shoulders, on the side of her body, wherever they feel comfortable to you. From there you just progress to longer kisses, more tongue and holding her body closer and tighter. I don't necessarily mean to be doing all this during one time you're with her but maybe over a few times however it goes with you. If you do and practice these things she'll be telling you that you kiss like forever and you'll be able to tell how much she loves kissing you now. But remember, if you get too good at this it could turn you or her on, or both of you. :-)
Go to wikihow.com. They have instructions for pretty much anything you could imagine. I wouldn't trust everything on there since anybody can edit it but it could give you some ideas.
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