He has a new girlfriend but I still want to sleep with him?

IF he has a girldfriend and that is not you then WHY would you offer him sex again? It looks like he chose where he wants to go for goodies.

Who cares if she's ugly or not? He has evidently said she is the 'girlfriend' thus it is her job to give it up. Not yours. Why would you ask further? Sex is great but its best with someone who also wants to give it to you with a real consideration for who you are and where your life is.

'Friends with benefits' is nice too but both sides need to know that they are not getting anything long term and yet are risking much by settling for partial attention. Not to mention all the STD sh_t out there.

You're better off finding someone who wants YOU to be their everything.

Good luck.

if he is a friend ask him how he feels--if he loved you why would he have another gf?
Or get a Boyfriend and see if he is jealous--if you want him for yourself--tell him only if he has JUST you and no one else--IF he does love you he will agree---if not he is just using you and could care less about you and looks down on you---if he agrees and then his eye is wandering--do not put up with it cut off contact until he KNOWS you are SERIOUS girl --or you will be heart broken

you girls need to stop bein young hoes, I'm not trying to be disrespectful but you have no place in doing anything sexual with a guy whos 3 years older than you, specially some clown who just wants 2 use and abuse young pussy, deal wit the realness

I'd say consider yourself lucky that he isn't with you. You might not know it now, but that's not the kind of guy you want to give sex to.

He will probably treat the girl he is with the way he has treated you he is a player

I think it's best to stop thinking about him. I know that's tough maybe the hardest thing but really you should just play it cool. Trade secret: act like it doesn't bother you and he will be jealous of you.

Oh yeah, just go around having sex with random guys a bunch of times and then wonder what's wrong when he gets a girlfriend :S Like most guys want sex, you don't just give guys what they want for fun.

Honestly it sounds like he has always loved you but is too scared to actually make a commitment for fear of who knows what. Maybe how you would feel about it. Maybe he thought that all he was was a booty call to you? It sounds like he's going out with her to make you jealous to find out how you really feel or make you want him back?

Maybe you should just talk to him and tell him your interested in being his girlfriend. If he really doesn't care about this girl then he will dump her and come to you.

Well! Did you ever f**k him again?

i recomend you to get a boyfriend too and ignores him let see his reactionj tjo see if really cares or not. I'm about to find myself a man , because they think we going to stic k around waiting for them. let show men is others outthere that values us and treat us like princess

lol girl I ask myself the same question these men always choose the ugly ones I don't know why. he is not going to stop sex with you, because he is hook. this is what's going to happen he going to keep you on the side whenever he gets needs he going to call you. if he really love you he would choose you to be his girl not her. but he is just selfish he wants both cakes. Don't think he going to last with her asking her out probably is the only way he can get her to bed she is more hard to get in bed . once he get tire he will go back to you he knows you will be there. the thing with you & I is that we gave in without giving them no obligations. I'm going through the samething now but thanks god mines haven't got serious with noone yet. but it can turn desructive in the end only you going to get hurt not him

Gosh, I'm going through the exact same thing and I'm thinking like you do. I'm not quite sure what to do, but I'm just going to move on. I'm always going to like him and I told him that I would always be willing to be in a relationship with him no matter what happens with him and his g|f, but that's me and I might be stupid, maybe you should consider moving on and he might realize, hey she's not going to wait around on me, so maybe I should catch her before it's to late. and if he cares anything about you, he will let you know what he thinks.

Heyy!
my suggestion is to move on. Don't worry about him he ain't worth it if y'all have had sex and it doesn't mean anything to him!
he isn't worth it.
find a better guy!

Ok, honey, not too long ago, I was in a similar situation as you. Very, very similar situation.

and you know what, you gotta move on. This guy is clearly a player and you deserve better.

i know what it's like though, I had the hardest time getting myself over the guy I had the similar situation with. It took awhile, but now, all I can think is "what the hell was I thinking? "

trust me, move on.

Sweetheart if he has gotten a girlfriend then big newsflash you were not that important to him. Jealousy is normal when you had feelings for him but evidently his feelings for you were not strong.