I cheated on my boyfriend of 1 year back in Nov. It meant nothing and was the biggest mistake of my life. We are still together but he wants to sleep with 2 other women to get back at me for what I did. How can I change his mind and make him love like he did once before. I miss the man I fell so deeply in love with and I only want to be with him. I have no interests in any other man whatsoever.
A-R-Norman
(Age:36 to 45)
When: More than a year ago
Anonymous was a bit...harsh but I kinda agree hun. The one rule I had in my relationship was no cheating. if a guy cheated, I left and never looked back. WHY? Because the trust, once broken can never be regained. every time he looks at you he sees some other man being with you.. YOU did that. Now he wants to hurt you although his reasons is immature--he should just leave and you should lick your wounds and learn to be a bit more responsible in regards to the people you love.
Where does he get 2 out of this? ;) Nah, giving him permission to cheat is probably the silliest thing you two can do. Has he known about it since November? If so, it's been 4 months since you cheated and if he still isn't over it, he may never be. If I were you, I'd try couples therapy or something along those lines because this problem likely runs deeper than you cheated / he wants to strike back. You need to get to the real root of the problem and fix it there. Him cheating will just add another layer of complexity to a relationship that can't withstand any more challenges.
I think you're relationship is in big trouble, obviously. If he's hell bent on cheating on you, I'd let him. It's headed towards an end anyway, maybe it needs a radical event to turn it around. He may never forgive you unless he cheats and realizes that it's not nearly as big of a deal as it might seem. Boy, that's tough though...good luck!
Two wrongs don't make a right. If you really loved him you wouldn't have cheated in the first place. Maybe he should do it so you can feel the same way he did when you did it to him. What kind of a person cheats on someone they are suppose to love. The man you feel in love with was lost when you cheated on him and you will probably never see him again. You broke the trust in the relationship once trust is gone you have nothing. If I were him I would have left you sorry ass a long time ago.
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