So my guy friend and I have been friends for a while. Even when he had a girlfriend I liked him but supported him. They broke up in August and I have been talking to him a lot lately. 2 weeks ago we had sex, and he took my virginity. He knows that I like him and he knows that he took my virginity, we're still talking a lot.like everyday. but then last night his ex facebook chats me this: Clarissa
u really like him don't u? 10:53pmAlexes
yes 10:53pmClarissa
thats too bad 10:53pmAlexes
why 10:54pmClarissa
well you tlk to him enough. I'm sure u'll find out 10:54pmAlexes
ok
whats going on? is there something I should know? 10:55pmClarissa
ask him 10:56pmAlexes
ok
i will
I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THE HELL THATS SUPPOSE TO MEAN. and so I was really going to ask him and I texted him hey when your available let me kn ow I have to ask you something. then I said you know what nevermind because I figured that's what she wanted me to do.but I did inform him she told me I had to ask him something but I don't know what I was suppose to be asking him so nevermind and I changed the topic.so its my bad I will never find out what's really going on.
so I think I know what's its about because I was telling him about my dad saying how he still had feelings for my mom even tho they are divorced and remarried but its not the same feelings its like I still care for you but I'm not in love with you.and he told me yeah I had the same convo with one my exes about that today so I figure that's what it was about.
Ok she is jeolous and trying to stir up trouble. You fall into her trap if you let her make this a problem. So I think he likes you and she is jeolous. She is causing the problem. I would focus on this guy. You did the right thing by not stirring the pot. I think this guy would date you if you asked him. Forget about this other Chick.
I'd say that's it. but is that him saying he cares for you but not in love? I'm a little lost because, do you stop talking about your dad, and begin talking about yourself?
you say: "but its not the same feelings its like I still care for you but I'm not in love with you" Are you saying your not in love with him?
Well from that understanding, she was more than likely the person he talked to, and she probably took what he was saying wrong. Some people really don't understand that concept. So she probably thinks he wants her back or something. Sad.
No he told me this is what he told his ex that he has feelings for her like a friend but doesn't and can't like her more than that. I was just explaining my conversation I had with my dad to him when he agreed with me about it and how he had that same conversation with one of exes that exact same day. AND no, I do love him that was just a quote as to what my dad had said....sorry for making it confusing. - A month ago
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"Well from that understanding, she was more than likely the person he talked to, and she probably took what he was saying wrong. Some people really don't understand that concept. So she probably thinks he wants her back or something. Sad."
She can't take rejection. She sees you as his object of affection, and wishes to change that by causing you to doubt. She couldn't get him to not want to be with you, so she's trying to get you to not want to be with him... But great move... Keep it up!!! - A month ago
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