Why do guys close their emotions?

Guys sometimes are afraid of expressing our feelings cause it can be viewed as a sign of weekness. But that doesn't mean we don't feel them. Just watch how we look at you and you will be able to tell. It looks kinda like this :)

Probably he's immature, and in addition, he may like someone else or have other things going on that would make getting back together with you difficult. I recently broke up with my boyfriend mutually, and was very happy about it, but just a few days ago, we had sex. I don't know why I did it, but I don't regret it. Sometimes people express how they feel, but they can't explain it.

My ex is doing the same things and always has. He would always break up with me when we'd start to have an actual convorsation about improving our relationship. Then, he'd come crawling back about two weeks later to confess his undying love and affection (lol). I'm officially out of the relationship now, but he still does it - even though HE broke up with ME.

I'm convinced that he has emotional/growth issues. He can never get his feelings straight. One minute, he's head over heels for me and misses me. The next, he thinks the break up is totally worth it and resents me. I don't understand it, but what I've learned is that you can't help everyone. Some people are just miserable and it rubs off on others. This doesn't mean they are bad people or that they will always be miserable, but some people (like all of us at some stage in our life) need to be by themselves to figure things out. "By themselves" meaning - a year.

I can't do anything for my ex. I love him and want to be with him, and he has all those feelings too (or, at least he says he does. He also randomly texts me those things), but for some reason, we're not aligning.

I just hope to provide you with some comfort in realizing that, although you may do all you can for a person, there's a certain amount of experience they need to learn on their own.

I've done numerous things to try to get my ex to fully open up to me. If he was completely open, we're had a really fun relationship. But he's not, and there's nothing I can for him. He needs to be on his own.and during that time period (hopefully), you and I will find some amazing new guy who's already dealt with this issue ~ ;)

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