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kmart42 (Age:Under 18)     When: A month ago
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Please could you try to answer these questions.
Thanks.

How do I get this girl to like me? I know most of her likes and dislikes. I know her favorite movies and books. I talk to her but not that much each day. At the school dances I ask her to dance.

How do I tell if she likes me? She asks me to dance at some of the school dances. I usually ask her though. When we aren't at school she texts me and I text her. When I do text her and I say I'm bored or I have to go to a really boring dinner today. She says I'm sorry and leaves a :( . What should I say back when she says I'm sorry. I've been saying its fine but it doesn't seem to fit right.


What should I talk about when talking to her? What do girls want to hear when guys talk to them? There's this girl who I like a lot and I don't know if she likes me. I say like how's your day? Or what are you doing later? Then after that I don't really know what to talk about.

When should I ask her out? I know all her friends and I'm pretty good friends with her friends. What do I say when I ask her out? Do I tell her friends that I like her? If I do tell her friends, most likely will they tell her?

Update: What do girls want to hear when guys talk to them?

By the information I've told you can you tell if she likes me?

How do I tell if she likes me?


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thatssotera (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
I think one thing you should do to really hint that there might be something more to your relationship is give her a compliment, something like "wow, you look really beautiful today." Be sincere, but say something really nice about her.

When talking to people who are shy or in awkward situations, try to comment on things that have nothing to do with the other person that have to do with what's going on around you, or like about things that have to do with both of you like something that's going on at the school.
Once you ask about something like how's your day, or what are you doing later, you're supposed to get answers that you could latch onto to ask more questions about. For example, if you ask how was your day and they say good you can ask what was good about your day. Then they say I got an A on a paper. Ask what the paper was about. They say it was about whales. You say really I don't know anything about whales, did you learn anything cool about them? And they say yeah and tell you what it was. Eventually they should ask you questions about your life to keep the conversation going, but not everybody knows when to ask or what to ask. So sometimes I tell my boyfriend or somebody else to ask me a question. Try to answer questions with more than yes or no, and try to avoid asking people questions that can be answered by a yes or no.

Maybe you should say it wouldn't be a boring dinner if I was eating with you. :)
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Reeses-pieces777 (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
talk about what she likes to talk about if you want her attention and that's great you know what she likes/dislikes. If she says she's sorry then you can say sorry I didn't mean to bug you at an inconvenient time tos how you're polite.

You should talk to her about how her day is, w/e, s/t interesting when she wants to. And then take a break and see if she goes out of her way to talk to you so you don't seem too desperate.

Ask her out when you guys are friends and have gotten to know what type of person she is. Just say, I'm wondering if you are free tonight. If a guy told my friends he likes me, (assuming they're loyal friends to me), they'll tell me. hopefully, good luck!
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xo-c-rae-ox (Age:Under 18)      When: A month ago
well there you go then
if you no what she lyks and all, talk bout that, try and recommend ova books and movies.
try talkin more each day, always keep eye contact with her.

asking you 2 dance. even acceptin is a sign of affection.
also textin aswell, speshly with the I'm sorry line :(
hmmm wen she says I'm sorry, just ask why she's sorry and that, or dnt be sorry.
haha sorry I'm not rlly gud with the whole convo fing.

well with a guy that I like, I lyk 2 listen 2 him talkin bout his lyf, things he's done, things he's plannin on doin. but try not 2 go 2 far with that.

but do what rarariot sed, ask her on a date
that shud break the ice completely x
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rarariot1290 (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
for the text messaging: I would always say to the guy I liked, "i'm so bored, ugh. be a doll & keep me entertained please? :)" or something open and along the lines of, "so how was your day, hopefully not as boring as mine was/will be?" to keep communication open

ask her out on a date and that'll get your message across. just be like, "so what are you doing this saturday - wanna do something?" I usually say grab coffee, because it could be something just between friends or a good launchpad for the next date - ie: at the end, just be like, "i really liked this, you think you might want to do it again sometime?" or "maybe next time we can go to a movie or something."
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Stonky (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 hours ago
I'm in sort of a similar situation and I've given it a lot of thought. First of all, if you're looking for a relationship, the only thing you can really do is to be yourself. Trying to be someone else while trying to get her to like you won't end well if you get together because she will undoubtedly get to know the real you.

Find something that she enjoys and ask her about it...get a girl talking about something she likes and all you'll have to do is nod your head and make the appropriate gestures/facial expressions when required.

Be yourself..if she doesn't like who you really are, then she isn't the one for you.
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