Ladies how do you become the perfect boyfriend?

there is NO such thing as the perfect man.not for every women
some girls like guys that are really romantic
some like guys they think they can change
some like the ass holes
and some just like a guy who's a great listener
and you can't be all those things at once

so be yourself
be nice and sweet
but stay a guy
like make a line and NEVER cross it
and you'll find the girl that's not perfect
but is perfect for you

a 'perfect man' is one who is a romantic, always reminds his girl that he cares about her, is polite and holds doors, suprises her, compliments her, wannts to spend time with her, stuff like that. I know it depends on the girl but that's some stuff that I would pick. basically if a man that is a gentle man and is nice and loving to his girl than his girl will be happy

You can't become that either you are or your not. There are allot of different kinds of good people but just because you are a good person that does not make you compatible could be the kind of guy that opens doors and sends flowers but for women that are looking for a man that is more rugged or physical than the sensitive thoughtful guy may not be STRONG enough .
let me say that ,that is not a measure of stenght nor is either type better than the other,but they are just different the perfect mate would vary according to each person and what they want an are attracted to.
you will know when you meet her.she will make you feel like the man of her dreams. That is how it happens

It's not something you can become. I want a man to be himself. It's more the qualities that are important. It's the personality that counts. Not so much the changing to fit me.

Thats really hard to say.every women is different but I can tell you that women love an honest and caring man. Someone who will listen to them and and actually communicate back. Someone who can not only be her lover but her best friend. I hope this help. :)

I tried everything mentioned here. I loved this girl more than anyone or anything in the whole world. I did everything for her because I wanted to. My world revolved around her & in the end well lets just say she just SH*T on me.
Do the best that you can & be the best friend & lover that you can & hopefully everything works out better for you.

Dude, there's no such thing as perfect. Just be yourself and try to be a good man, if that's not enough for her, then find a new one.

hey I'm a dude , but I think I have a little insight. Chicks love romantic guys, that take em out to dinner, open doors for em, pay the bill, etc. Conversation is really important to women, particularly listening. Become a great listener. Do stuff that she likes to do, like shopping- although there are some women who don't care much for shopping.
The BEST date.the kind that women absolutely ADORE, is if you take em to some romantic destination, where there is a giant jacuzi, the ocean, or really nice places to eat. Get used to having a lot of candles around too.women really dig that.

So in a nut shell:
1- Romance
2- listening
3-being a gentlemen (especially in our age category)
4- paying attention to details
5- cool romantic excursions near some kind of warm, or mineral water
6- cool vacations are an interesting date

SEX: Become more sensual. i.e. Tantra. check out books by Margot Anand, Diane Richardson, Jaiya, Mantak chia.etc. Jewel honoring.women really like that.if you do it right. Take LOTs of time during foreplay.like an hour or more (when appropriate)
Always wait till your women is ready for your penis.that is.completely aroused.which could take time. Become a great lover. lovemaking is not an inherent skill.

Knock it off guy. You either are or you aren't the man of a woman's dreams.

If you try to become that person then you are not being yourself and that's unfair to her and you.