I hate it, sometimes I get really upset about me and my boyfriend, you see in my past my relationships haven't been the best! The guys would just out of no where change and I never knew why, they would quit calling or texting or even wanting to hang out with me. So sometimes if I do hear from my boyfriend I get upset and start thinking "here we go again" but he isn't like that I just start getting upset
I have been told its because I'm just putting my guard up. I'm afraid if I keep doing this I might lose him forever! I mean I don't tell him or show him I'm upset but guys are not stupid they know with out even asking that something is wrong.
He means so much to me and I want to for once have a fun and good relationship without the stress or wondering does he like me as much as I like him.
How can I get over my past have have a healthy and fun relationship with my boyfriend before I lose him!
I'm afraid there is no magic cure. I have been with several girls that behave like you before (who put their guards up) .
Certainly this will cause strain your relationship and if you really care about your boyfriend, surely you won't want to ruin it? Yes, you have been hurt in the past but let's face it, guys who just ignore you suddenly out of nowhere are just not even worth mentioning let alone remembered. They probably are not thinking about it now, why should you?
There are nice and good guys out there. Guys with good attitude will not behave in such way.
I know you are still hurt by this but if you think that your current boyfriend really care about you and vice versa, look on the bright side of things. At least you are not hanging with those losers anymore. You should talk with your boyfriend about this as this is not something you should manage on your own and believe me, there is nothing more reassuring than your boyfriend supporting you through this.
However, if he is not supportive and/or you don't feel you can trust him enough to talk it through then maybe he is not the one or you are not ready for a relationship until you are at peace with your past demons.
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