I know he is a player and I know that all he wants is sex. But I'm wondering if I could be the girl that change him. I feel like we have a special connection. He is protective over me. And we've hooked up twice and He's asked me if I want to have sex with him, but I said no because I'm not ready. I don't know what I should do. How do I get him to like me for more then just sex? Or should I just give up and be friends (which I don't even know if He's capable of)
As a guy, but not a player, if he is a player, he will take the bite and run to the next cake. It's very hard to change someone unless you do have a big impact over him. If you feel like trying to change him though, don't have sex with him and just spend time with him. He will see that he needs you.
most girls who are victims to the player feel this way and think they can change him. A woman can never change a man. If he wants to change, he will change on his own (probably like 10-15 years down the line when he really gets his heart broken lol). Just continue to be yourself and get to know him slowly as a friend if you really want a relationship, but keep in mind that most players are successful because they are so slick and charming. If they were like "nice shoes wanna f***" they would never get girls, so they have to make girls feel the same way you feel.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 3 months ago
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