When we first hung out. he'd take me out to dinner at nice restaurants and pay the bill. He would never let me pay for myself. I told him a guy was bragging to me about how he would bench press 200 pounds, got into a fight with another guy at a bar and refused to back down from the fight, and asked for my number. He looked worried and he said "you said no right." I nodded, And he said "good girl." . And then we started holding hands, and he stopped paying the bill, and didn't even call me for 3 weeks after we held hands. He said he's not my boyfriend after holding my hand and then tried to comfort me saying that soetimes a friend is better than a boyfriend. Then he took off my clothes and we saw each other naked. Then he broke it off. saying he felt like he was taking advtange of me. I go from a lady that he treats and pays for, to a friend with benefits. all over the course of one month. WHY? What did I do wrong? We always talked about superficial things when were together. maybe that was it? Eventually he even stopped talking to me about his friends.
Update: And WHAT DO I DO NOW? If I can't be his wife I want to be his girlfriend. If I can't be his girlfriend I want to be his friend, if I can't be his friend I want to be his friend with benefits.
3 months ago