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Lady he takes out to dinner.... to friends with benefits that he dumps?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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When we first hung out. he'd take me out to dinner at nice restaurants and pay the bill. He would never let me pay for myself. I told him a guy was bragging to me about how he would bench press 200 pounds, got into a fight with another guy at a bar and refused to back down from the fight, and asked for my number. He looked worried and he said "you said no right." I nodded, And he said "good girl." . And then we started holding hands, and he stopped paying the bill, and didn't even call me for 3 weeks after we held hands. He said he's not my boyfriend after holding my hand and then tried to comfort me saying that soetimes a friend is better than a boyfriend. Then he took off my clothes and we saw each other naked. Then he broke it off. saying he felt like he was taking advtange of me. I go from a lady that he treats and pays for, to a friend with benefits. all over the course of one month. WHY? What did I do wrong? We always talked about superficial things when were together. maybe that was it? Eventually he even stopped talking to me about his friends.

Update: And WHAT DO I DO NOW? If I can't be his wife I want to be his girlfriend. If I can't be his girlfriend I want to be his friend, if I can't be his friend I want to be his friend with benefits.    3 months ago

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WaitingAtTheDoor (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
Hard as it may be, it is definitely time for you to back away from this guy.

He sounds calculating, and he's been playing this game with you to get what he wants.

Now he has you thinking that you want what he wants as well. For your sanity, walk away and find another guy worth your time.
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