I have some acne and I'm not the most popular girl at school, I have a lot of friends and am a fun person. Why can't guys see who I actually am and not what I look like? Why don't any of the guys I like, like me?
I agree with what EBs123 said. Some guys just don't appreciate beauty at your age. Also, a lot of guys are very shy. I never asked a girl out when I was in high school. I was always afraid of rejection. So maybe it's not you, maybe it's them. Without a picture, it makes it hard to see what you look like. But don't worry hun, be picky and be patient. I know it's tough, but you will have a lot less problems if you don't always have to have a b/f. And obviously you dont, which is good, so you're doing fine. Just don't be so desperate for a boyfriend that you will settle.
Guys in high school (for the msot part) are shallow and only want the perfect most beautiful girls. She is kind of a trophy in a way so he can brag to all his friends about how hot his girlfriend is. I am sure there is that one guy in your school who will see past your out appeaance and see how great you are. And then no one else will amtter.
Guys get a lot easier to deal with after high school. Skin does too, thank god. I was pretty much in your shoes when I was your age. Then a few years later I had my first boyfriend, and have never been single for very long since. I changed a little, I'm sure, but mostly it was them.
Guys at that age are still pretty shallow. They don't understand that looks aren't everything and in order to "be cool" they want to date only the hot girls of the school. Kinda lame, if you ask me. The biggest thing you have to remember is to keep your confidence high and even if the guys aren't all over you at this time, don't change yourself.
In order to get the confidence you want though, you will have to accept your looks. Try proactiv to clear up your acne. My sister used it and it worked wonders.
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