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How do I get his attention without seeming creepy/ over eager?

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cranberygrl (Age:18 to 24)     When: A month ago
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I want this guy. And there may have been a slightest time when he wanted me too. How can I confront him without it seeming random and obvious that I like him? Is there any way that you can get a guy come to you? He's usually surrounded by friends that are either attractive girls or his friends on his team. . . it's really intimidating. HALP!

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blue-kev (Age:30 to 35)      When: A month ago
Say his name is mike use the line: I would like to do something with you mike. Put your hand on his shoulder and smile. Guys fantasize about women showing an interest this does that. By using his first name at the end of the sentence you are telling him he is special to you. By smilling you are showing you are caring,genuine and kind. And the hand on the shoulder tells him you won't screw him over down the line. Make sure its all real when you do this not just an act. And you will have turned him on in 4 different ways and fulfilled the fantasy of womenhhood all guys have. All guys dream about girls saying I like you john or whatever his first name is. Grabbing our hands looking into our eyes. The problem is this is how men fantasize about women. In reality women hide there feelings and don't do this for some reason unknown to guys. Creating the illusion women are put off by men. The tragedy of this is women do like guys they only act like they don't. If women acted how they felt the male fantasy of womanhood would come true and wouldn't be just a dream of what we wish would happen.
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icecreamlover You should write a book. and publish it for the world. - 15 days ago

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blue-kev (Age:30 to 35)      When: A month ago
Don't you realize you improve your chances with aguy by telling him that you like him. I guy will realy respect you for this. When guys dream about girls the girls in our dreams tell us they like us. It would be sooo cool if girls realy did this.
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Question Asker Really? Cool. How would I go about doing that? - A month ago

 
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Why would a guy be turned off by a girl that shows she is into him. I keep hearing girls say they are afraid of being over eager or creepy. Short of halloween night I have never even heard aguy use that term. Guys like girls who show there feelings. Now I understand his friends being around him being intimidating so try to get him in between classes or when he is on his own. A note dropped in his bag or handed to him can work also. Write him a letter guys love letters from girls. Write about how you feel about him and have a friend give it to him if you are to nervous. But telling him you like him in the letter can be a real turn on for a guy. You realy can win a guy over with this. Tell him how you feel. I did this to a girl once I told her how I felt and wrote her a poem. And she was totlay flatterd. Guys love this. stuff hand it to him. And say this is for you. And walk away. He will be on cloud 9 the rest of the day. Think about if you got a letter from aguy telling you how he felt and wrote you apoem to go with it. if it comes from the heart you can realy win him over with this.
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Question Asker Sounds risky, but at least in a note I wouldn't be rejected right away if that was the case. :] Thanks. - A month ago

 

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