My ex boyfriend and I recently started talking again as "friends". We work together so it took a long while before we got to where we were. He basically screwed me over and lead me on for a good 3 years. It was ugly after we parted ways. I had a lot of growing up to do. My hate for him & struggle to move forward took a long time. He ended up dating a so-called friend of mine who went behind my back and dated him. She was in the midst of getting a divorce but it wasn't final. She left everything she knew, her family, church, friends, community, and moved into his house because she was disowned. She claimed to be very religious but she basically sinned by doing all that she did. She stopped talking to me and then I knew why. He always played the nice guy role. Would do anything for anyone. Anyway, the ex and I started emailing each other recently. He actually took the first step by complimenting me on what I was wearing and somehow it lead to a flirtatious conversation. After that we had a couple more emails with each other in the last week that have been getting a little more sexual. I know on my part, I am probably doing it for revenge on both of them (which is sick). But, My QUESTION IS.if he cares for her so much and let her move in (WITH HER KID) because of her situation, what does he want with me? The thing is. he always said I was the BEST he had ever had. I mean we have gotten down and dirty everywhere. We definitely had trouble not sleeping with each other even after breaking up. But now, he has someone &supposedly it's serious. Why does he still want to sleep with me? The emails and messges he sends me are so detailed in what he would love to do with me and how he wants to try new things with me. After all the hurt he put me through & then to find out he is now with an ex friend of mine. I would think she was worth the fock, if he let her move in. What does he want with me? I told him I knew he missed what we had but why wasnt he sastisfied with what he has now? He then told me that he was honestly satisfied but it was just the excitement of talking to me. He said he was probably just all talk. Trust me, if he were all talk he wouldn't have grabbed my ass twice already. I know he wants to just hit it. I know, I'm not right to respond to his emails but I couldn't help it. I feel like Karma's a bitch both of them. I mean I could literally RUIN her life and his by letting her know that he doesn't just wanna f*ck her but he wants to f*ck me too. And badly. Of course I'm not going to do it but I wanted to know how he can care for her but want to sleep with me. Would you have someone move in with you if you were "satisfied" ?
screw that guy he sounds like an ass. prob doesn't care about anyone from the sound of it . forget him. or do it and mess them up. I might do it but that's just me : P
AHHhahahahahahah.. He is a dumbass (although sex was great) but I don't care for him emotionally anymore. I just couldn't figure out how he could be capable of screwing her over too. My goodness I think I feel empathy for her. I think I need to forget both of them and not talk to him ever again! Thanks for the advice :D - 2 months ago
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Ya moving on is probably best. better things await. - 2 months ago
He is flirting with you because he can and because you are engaging him. Give a horse a carrot, he will eat it. He also wants sex wtih you, doesn't mean he wants a relationship, or he wants to get back with you, or that he loves.it's just sex. Maybe the sex he had with you is not the same with this other woman, so he wants it from you. A man will take only what is given to him. What he is doing is not right, but nonetheless common.ever heard of the Married man having an affair, same thing. My advice, stop all communication with him. Or at least the flirting. If you want to chat, be his friend, ok.nothing more.
Ive had this one happen before, the whole " I don't wanna be ya boyfriend anymore, but can we still f***." The answer is obviously no. He only wants you for sex, that is kinda obvious. If you f*** him, your a whore. He has a girl. He just wants sex from you and obviously isn't getting enough at home. lol Don't have sex with him, trust me. It will be the worse thing you ever do. It won't help you, and it defiantly won't help him any. To me, it seems like he will say anything to get in your pants. && If I were you, I wouldn't want to satisfy him, he wants to cheat and that shouldn't fly with you. &&&&& He obviously doesn't care enough about her if he wants to sleep with another chick.
God, guys are such dicks sometimes. I hope his gurl finds out about this. LOL
Yeah, I know he is a dick.. I guess I think about...the revenge aspect on my ex friend and the ex boyfriend. I've been thinkin about it a lot the past couple of days..and been feeling guilty. I think that I should tell him we shouldn't talk anymore and if he cares that much for her like he says he does, then he should focus on her instead of focusing on f*cking me.
Thanks for advice~! - 2 months ago
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Your welcome. Hope you get his ass. lol not literally. - A month ago
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