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If he don't like me then why so much effort?

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: 6 months ago
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there is this guy I am totally crushing on. we recently exchanged numbers and talked for over two hours the other night. he was telling me jokes and singing songs and all. then I called him the other day and he said he was driving and was probably going to loose me so he would call back later. he didn't however he called me the next morning and apologized and said he fell asleep but would call later. he didn't? doesn't he want to talk or did he just get busy or what? If he didn't like talking why would he have talked for so long? I asked him 2 or 3 times while on the phone if he wanted to quit talking and he said no I enjoyed talking to you?

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aegyson (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
If I had to guess, I would say he's just trying not to seem too available. This usually makes the other person fall for them more. If it's been more than three or four days since he's talked to you then it could be something else, but I wouldn't lose hope yet if it has only been a couple days.
If he was talking to you that much, he had to have had some interest. My advice would be to back off for a day or two, and let him call you.
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darlanoy0510 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
I been in the situation before and at the end, the guy told me that we're just friend. Who initiate the contact first you or him? IF you always initiate the contacts and he usually responds back mean he is just being polite. Or he just like the attention that you give him or Also he could be enjoying your company and talk to you because he has no one to talk to. If you both equally contacts each other mean he is interested in you. I think you have to ask him straight out and ask where you stand in his life because you want a clear answer then you wouldn't get hurt from it. I didn't ask the guy straight out and assumed that he likes me but in the end he told me he just like me as friend only. Good luck!
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sweetiegurl (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
he does enjoy talking 2 you it seems but you should trust him if you like him don't act like your his girlfriend already he prob busy or tired and he did apologize to for not calling before maybe something held him up don't worry everything will work out
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