This girl who is dating this other guy, who is in the middle of a divorce and won't take her out on a date or allow her to tell people they are dating. This girl accepted my desire to date and didn't tell me about her other boyfriend.
Well I developed deep feeling for this girl and then she comes out with the truth and tells me she is actually engaged to this guy. I said I was ok with it just to see if she had real feelings for me. She told me that she loved me but loved him more, I told her that I couldn't watch her love another man when I cared for her and kicked her out of my life.
Three days later she said she needed me in her life. I said I would let her back in 'cause I cared for her a lot. I know she is using me and I told her she was but she is ok with it.
What should I do I don't want to hurt her but I don't what her to just use me like she is.
Get rid of her! She obviously has no concern for your feelings in the whole situation. She basically wants to have her cake and eat it to. Don't let her. She's had enough cake lol. I'd tell her that I'd still like to be friends but the dating would need to stop. Does her other guy know about you?
He knows, but he doesn't care as long as he is top dog - A month ago
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Omg. These people are crazy!! I say get them out of your life! - A month ago
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You have to let it go. Think of it really, you don't want to hurt her, but she dosen't mind hurting you and apparently even you do not mind hurting yourself. You deserve better than that. Don't hurt yourself this way. Just leave.
You deserve to find someone that will treat you with respect, see she lost you and now she has no control you see. You really should find a woman that is going to want you and only you.
I think you should walk away from this. You have no idea what kind of trouble you can be tangled up in messing with another man's fiance. You don't know what her intentions are with you, other than keeping herself happy with you and her fiance. She doesn't have your best interest in mind - how do you know that she won't use you as a way to anger her current man? I honestly think you're playing with fire, sleeping with a practically married woman. Try to think about this in her fiance's position. How would you react knowing the woman you were going to marry was sleeping around? Sleeping with a man who KNOWS she is going to get married? Leave her, because there is no good that can come out of this for you. Good luck.
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