Every time I really like a guy and want a future with him I become like his sister! How does this happen, why does it happen and how can I keep it from happening?
When you meet a guy and you guys get to hanging out be more aggressive. Make it more obvious that you want something more than a friendship. You can't be shy or always expect the guys to know what you want because trust me they never know what we want. Try being up front with them about where you want the relationship to go.
I agree. Hanging out and being friends is a good step...but you need to suggest you want more otherwise you will end up in the sister category. - 3 months ago