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Reeses-pieces777 (Age:18 to 24)     When: A month ago
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If you two broke up on certain issues that were unforeseen or out of your/his/her control at the time, how likely would it be that you would give them a second chance and rekindle a relationships.

Would you think it's possible? What would be the requirements of being able to get together again?

I'm curious because I heard a co-worker talk about about a couple who split and 10 years later they got married.is that even possible?

I am most interested in intelligent answer with thought or any answer with thought. Thankx ;*)

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Talbot (Age:25 to 29)      When: A month ago
I think its possible depending on what you broke-up over if its something like one of you is moving away and neither of you want an LDR then yeah if you ever move back or the person moves closer you could develop feelings for each other again as you interact with each other.

It all depends on how you broke-up if it was a good break-up then your more likely to keep some feelings for the other person even if its been years since you saw or talked to each other. If it was a bad break-up then you probably could care less about the person and will forget them completely over time.
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WeaponZero
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WeaponZero (Age:25 to 29)      When: A month ago
its possible, but people change and feelings change over that time.
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raz0rblastz (Age:Under 18)      When: A month ago
if things were out of ur control and it broke you 2 up.definitely u'll have some residue feelings for each other.and if ur able to nurture that feeling even throughout the time when ur apart.the relationship will work out.its possible.it jus depends on how much you love each other and ur willpower to make it work
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Hercules (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
If I truly loved the girl and something happened that took us from each other for 10 years, it isn't like I'd suddenly lose interest in her or that type of girl. If I was still single by the time I saw her again, I'm sure my feelings would instantly reignite.
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Lost123
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Lost123 (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
I think as long as my ex and I can talk it out, it would be okay if he makes an extreme effort to be with me
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jaycee777 (Age:30 to 35)      When: A month ago
I just broke up with my partner of only 3 mths, because he doesn't feel the same way and says he will never be head over heels for me, I would want nothing more than for him to feel more for me, but sometimes its just the way it is.

My aunty met her boyfriend when she was 16, they went out for 2 years, broke up and a few years later got back together, so its possible, they are still together and have grandchildren.
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malala That's so cute of your aunt! - A month ago
Talbot How about this My aunt told me the first time my uncle met her he was drunk (in a bar) and proposed to her she told him to come by her place the next day sober and ask then she will say yes. They have been together for over 50yrs have 2 grown children (boy and girl) and 3 grandchildren (two girls, one boy) How is that for love and an interesting how we met story. - A month ago
malala That's also so cute of your aunt! - A month ago

 
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
I agree with Talbot. I think if the break up was on good terms, and if whatever it was that was out of his/her control had been resolved, I think there is a good chance of them getting back together.

I know many people break up and get back together for a variety of reasons, but I think that in this situation, if they get back together, it would probably be more likely that the second chance would last longer and work out better.

But, the issues definitely first need to be resolved! =)
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Answerer I forgot to mention that both sides being single is important too =) - A month ago

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babygurl4u (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
Well. I would like to keep in touch with this one because I'm going threw just that. My ex broke up with me over something that was totally out of my control. We were going to get back together. but he just didn't want too. 'too scared of getting hurt'. I would explain it all but its tooooo long of a story. I am so very hurt and I would LOVE to get back together with him again. Its been 3 months and I haven't heard a word from him ever since. I'm stuck with this one aswell. So far I don't have an answer for you and I'm very sorry for that. hopefully soon I will! And hopefully its good news!
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