My Girlfriend broke up with me around halloween, and she said she has been busy with work, we talked about getting together and talking but it never happened, about what happened, because I really don't know what happened that night. We talked maybe once or twice a week since then online, emails, facebook etc. But minimal phone conversations (maybe two since the break up). I have been trying to talk to her to resolve things, but she is too busy, but I really think there is someone else taking up her time. Then most recently, we ran into each other at a club (she showed up with whom she said was just a friend), and she came up to me and asked if I was going to ignore her all night, and I said YES. She walked away and came back and tried talking to me again. I told her to go back to her friend, and she said she isn't dating anyone and he is only a friend. Was I wrong to ignore her, knowing that she has been ignoring me for the past three weeks without any explaination. She didn't stay at the club more than two hours when we used to stay all night long. And why would she be mad because I was ignoring her, since I am trying to be a man and I am the one trying to get over her!
She sounds really immature. No you weren't wrong for ignoring her. I wish I could tell you what she's trying to do to you but I'm not entirely sure. But I agree that she wants you to want her but she doesn't want to be with you. It satisfies her security; makes her feel good about herself. Basically, I think she's using you for that reason. She is someone you shouldn't trust what-so-ever. Just get rid of her and move on. She's a child =].
As a girl, it is really hard to think someone is ignoring me. I start to wonder why they are and it drives me nuts. She is probably the same way. I think you writing her all the time made her feel good cause she knew you were still there waiting for her. She wants you to want her even if she doesn't want to be with you.
I think the best thing for you is to either talk to her, or write he a letter saying you need time for yourself and you don't want to see or talk to her for a little while. The make yourself unreachable to her. She will start to get curious about what you are doing and with who. She might then see what she wants to be with you again and at that point you can talk and work it out.
But whatever you do. don't tell her your going to ignore her on purpose. She will see that you are pissed off and that what she's doing is getting to you and you don't want that.
It might not be that someone else is taking up her time, it is a possibility. Anyways I think she should respect your feelings when you said you didn't want to talk to her and there shouldn't be a problem with it since she was the one who broke up with you. I think she should be more considerate. You're just trying to find out the reason why she is mad at you and that only she can tell you, so if you text her and say 'what time would be convenient to talk' and if she doesn't answer then it's over for real, if she answers then you can ask her.
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