Ok I'm what you can call a stud. I'm definitely not a player, but girls are always all over me, and I treat them right. So when school started I was super popular at my new school, and this beautiful chick really liked me. We liked each other, adn eventually went out. Me being the imature guy that I am- asked her out off the bat. We stayed together for 'bout three weeks, and stayed at a very below my average pace. All we did was kiss, and at school we couldn't do much due to the tight ass security. We eventually broke up. She dumped me because she thought we moved to much. Which honestly it was to fast. I mean we didn't know much 'bout each other. I usually get over girls with the snap of a finger but I couldn't get over her. I tried, and tried. I got with other girls, and nothing happened. At some party last week I didn't go but she made out with my friend as a dare. I've never been the jelouse type but I can say without a doubt that I was jelouse. So I'm still really liking her, and can't believe there's no chance of us (so I thought). One day we text each other, and we flirt. She eventually brings up in a convo bout each other that "Oh I bet will probably go out again. In the future". Now she tells me herself she still likes me, and I tell her I still like her. I pull all the cheesy lines, good lines, compliments, EVERYTHING. She starts to like my friend, but my friend is REALLY not intrested in her. I even tried to get them together thinking it would help me get over her. It didn't go through. So we are talking at the movies, and we just do our casual flirting, and smiling at each other. Now her best friend who is with her atm, tells me "dont worry everything will be good". Before I left her at the movies, adn went home. My close friend went to her, and talked to her. He said how much I really liked her, and I guess what he said worked. Because she texted me as soon as she got home, and said "hey lets talk", I reply "'bout?", she says "us!". Now she's thinking, and all this. I mean I'd ask her out again but I'm worried that she rejects me and that's the final screw in my coffin door. What do I do here? I'm in dire need of help! How can I get this chick back!
EDIT: I have probably said "I love you" to a girl 'bout 5 times, and that's because they were really good relationships. I'm not sure if I love her, but I'm very close.
Update: You know what? That's true. At first when it looked like I was getting over her. She was on my dick, now its the other wayy around. But how do I know that this won't backfire?
3 months ago
you should start slow, by going on dates and get to know each other better. trust me a relationship will be much better to start that way than to rush and focus on kissing and stuff like that. if you want her back you have to make sure of that, so ask her on a simple date where you two can talk. by getting to know her first you will find out whether you really want her.
don't say I love you so soon because you don't it's all lust. and when you do say it when you REALLY don't love her then you will love her only because you're telling yourself to love her. so be careful with that and start slow. good luck!
You want my honest opinion? I think you are stressing this situation because SHE ended it. You're used to being chased and now you are on the other end of it. That is how it is when you're younger.and hell, even older guys do it. Let it go, ignore her. Sounds to me like she knows you're sweatin' her, so once you stop, she'll be back,
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