My ex-girlfriend who I am in love with and I are going to talk. She broke up with me because her brother (who used to be my best friend)didn't want us going out and he was making her life hell. After she broke up with me, she began to avoid me at all cost. Even though she was avoiding me, I kept catching her staring at me and she talked about me with her friends a lot. She then started dating a guy (who is really ugly) and all I said when I found out was that I'm glad that she is at least with a nice guy even though not being with her kills me. However, about a week later, I heard he was talking shit about her behind her back and that infuriated me so much so I was gonna beat the shit out of the guy but I didn't want her to hate me anymore than it seemed she already did! Later that day I asked her why she hated me and she said she didn't, then I asked why she was avoiding me and she said she didn't know, that it was very immature of her, and that she was sorry about it.
However, when I asked her why she had been staring at me and talking about me (signs I thought showed she still had feelings for me) she changed the subject or ignored the question altogether. I let it go and she acts better to me while still being distant. So now that I'm actually gonna have a chance to talk to her face to face I don't know what I should say. Should I tell her how I love her and how seeing her with another guy tears me up, should I tell her about how her boyfriend is a complete asshole, should I ask her the same question she has been avoiding? I don't know what to do and any advice would be much appreciated so please answer
Update: So I talked to her and things went fine but then she liedi asked her why I catch her looking at me and she said she was just spacing out which I know isn't true because they were quick glances and she would look away whenever I would notice y wuld she lie?
7 months ago
I don't think that talking bad about her boyfriend is a great idea. If he's a jerk, let her hear it from others. I would focus on why she lets her brother make decisions for her. Is her life not going to be hell if she only goes out with guys he picks? Or is she using him as an excuse? But first I would ask what she thinks is the point of talking. Is it going to be about how to get back together? If it's just going to be about her not hating you and then after, she still won't date you because of the brother, then don't have that talk. Tell her when her brother changes his mind, to get in touch.
Move on dear, you deserve to be treated better. Her brother became an excuse by the sounds of things. If she really wanted to be with you, then she would have been with you regardless of her brother, and to go on and go out with someone else. Sounds like she had no intention of continuing being with you.
Yeah, I've done that, 3 girls have shown interest in me and even asked me out, but I didn't think it was fair for me to go out with them when all that runs through my mind is this girl - 8 months ago
This sounds familiar are you the same guy that got into a fight with someone because of this girl? If you are I just think your asking 4 trouble. Do you remember the reason you 2 broke up? Its not because of her brother your ''ex best friend '' it was because she's easily influenced she let him put a wedge between the 2 of you. I remember your story clearly now. . This girl was the drama queen. . Seems like she's maybe still dangling you from that string. You don't need to tell her about her boyfriend she already made her choice. . She chose him. Look I don't know you , but regardless of the fact you can do better. . You just need to wake up and see that. . If not you will be played 4 a lifetime
Hey man I completely sympathize with ya. My Ex (as of this week) had her parents pounding her because they didn't know me and assumed that I was going to be a failure. She couldn't distance herself from her parents and started to believe what they said even though there was evidence against everything they said. Unfortunately she has to be the one to decide to move away from her family (it's probably not just her brother). For me I don't know how I would react if I had her parents as inlaws (we were dating for 3. 5 years). So my question to you is where do you see yourself with her (providing she got back together with ya) in the future? Could she distance herself from her family enough to be with you?
As far as your questions I wouldn't tell her about her current boyfriend. That just spells trouble. I also wouldn't confront her current Boyfriend if you haven't heard anything outright ( if he does say anything in front of you make sure their are witnesses and deck him hard! ). The questions about her and you should probably not be asked until you establish more of a connection to her now that she is opening up to you. Don't play the little puppy that wants her back. Play it cool don't make her jealous (it'll backfire trust me) but don't push her. Girls go from liking you to "he's creeping me out" or "he's being a jerk" faster than you can say whiplash. I would back off and not get too involved with her life right now. Let her have space and she'll find out what this guy is really like. For right now try and find other things to occupy your attention.
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