If you're dating a guy whose kids are completely out of control and his ex-wife is always trying to get him in trouble with the police. Should you dump him? Even though he's a fantastic guy?
What if there is a very real possibility that she (ex) could try to drag you into it by making false accusations about you? And what if the accusations she's made about her ex-husband and his past girlfriends (and/or the past girlfriend's children) involve inappropriate sexual contact with the his kids?
I'm very worried that I could somehow get dragged into this if she says that I'm doing something inappropriate with the children. This kind of accusation is very damaging. The ex has made statements to the school/police stating that he has made his son watch porn with him or that he touched his daughter. She (14) vehemently denies this and says her mom just wants to get custody of her again. I believe his daughter as she is a feisty/confident young lady. His ex-wife has also said that his ex-girlfriends son has acted inappropriately with his kids.
I'm torn because I've not seen ANYTHING that would indicate he would do this sort of thing. I've even gone as far as to talk to the ex-girlfriend to get her insight. She said his ex-wife is completely nuts and she refuses to have his children at her house because she's worried about what his ex-wife might conjure up.
Holly that's hella drama just for a piece of ass. Get out and after the smoke clears if there still a spark you can re unite. But in life we always gotta be selfish, look out for you self, because if you don't who will. I would talk to a lawyer and get his opinion. Good?
Wow. I'm sorry but for some reason I just hear banjo's playing and fiddles. I know I shouldn't make light of a situation like this, but with allegations you have to remember that the devil is always in the details. This guy should limit his contact with his ex-wife and only have exchanges with her through a lawyer, or some sort or regulated medium. You should suggest that he does this to get this situation under control. If he won't find and exhaust safe guarded options to handle business with his ex-wife, then you need to leave. Because then it's on him. Not the crazy ex-wife. Try this and let me know how it works. - j
I know it's going to be hard but if it were me I'd stay with him it's not his fault HIS EX IS NUTS AND IF PEOPLE KNOW SHES NUTS THEN SHE CAN'T BE taking seriously so no one will believe her when she says cruel things about you or him but I would most def. Be careful with her cause she might just go all the way nuts but no I'd stay with him
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