Ok, here's the story. I love a guy named Ray. He's had a girlfriend for the past year and a half. I've been patiently waiting for them to break up. I don't talk any crap on his girlfriend, I don't encourage him to break up with her. I act like Ray's friend, and I don't try to make him cheat or anything, I wouldn't do that. Him and I have been friends for nearly 3 years now. I dated him in the past, and he loved me, I loved him too. But the time just, wasn't right. So I ended up breaking up with him, which I still regret.
There was a period of time when he wouldn't come to visit me. I'm best friends with his sister also, and she would ask him if he wanted to accompany her to my house, and he would say no. This went on half the summer. One day he decided to come. And ever since then he comes over at least 2-5 times a week. He hangs out with me more than his girlfriend. My parents and his parents have both noticed that he's with me more than his girlfriend.
Ok, now the problem is, he was really nice at first when he started coming around a lot. But he's slowly becoming meaner and meaner. He isn't violent towards me or anything. He jokes around a lot as well, you'd have to know him to understand. But there's a difference between his joking, and being serious. And my friend and I were talking about it just last night, and she's even noticed that he's become pretty mean. now our guesses are either : 1. He's having problems with his girlfriend and is taking it out on me. Or 2. He likes me as well, but doesn't want to like me, so he's being mean. Or 3. He found out I like him and is trying to be a jerk so that I won't like him.
But the weird thing is, we still hang out all the time. He's always calling to hang out. If he didn't like me, and didn't want to be around me, why would he still call? Sorry this is so long, Thank you to all who reads this. Which of the 3 do you think it could be? Or is there something else I may have missed?
Update: Also, I forgot to mention. Ray told me and his sister about a month ago that him and his girlfriend might break up soon, because he is getting sick of her crap. He mentioned she complains too much about every little thing.
A month ago
I have absolutely NO clue. You never gave any details for the word "mean". If it becomes a dangerous situation, I know exactly what you should do. Enough said. Anyway, it could be a number of different things. His girlfriend, trying to make you not like him because he doesn't like you, the weather, ate too much for Thanksgiving, trouble at work, insomnia, and the list goes on. You probably missed something, but there's no way for me to tell what.
4. He feels comfortable with you, and he doesn't realize what you mean to him yet. He will sooner or later, but it could take time. I hope this helps. God Bless. =)
He may be stressed, but personally I would be looking elsewhere hun. a guy is a guy, and if he really wanted to be with you, he would be already. If he really wants to break up with his girlfriend he would have done that already too. guys just do. he may be peaved at her, but he doesn't sound like he is going anywhere at this stage. find someone that wants you fully and will treat you well.
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