ok so here's what's going on, pretty much me and my best friend have a relationship that's friends with benefits, but she knows that I like her and she's told me that she loves me. to complicate this she moved way away. but when she came back up to visit we'd be together and make out for awhile. but now when she's away she never texts or calls or anything and the one time she did she said that I was still her best friend and that she should talk to me more. which she hasnt. since then I don't think I've recieved anythin from her. I just feel really alone and don't know what to do.
I think she may be trying to avoid you to make herself feel better about hooking up with you as a friend, and not as your girlfriend. She might be feeling guilty or disappointed in herself. There are a lot of possible reasons as to why she's not trying harder to communicate with you, but most of them are probably personal and you shouldn't worry about it. Is she just busy with her new move?
I know this sucks, but I hope you see now that you deserve a girl to be your girlfriend and not just a friend with benefits. Usually when people are friends with benefits one person ends up falling for the other person, who doesn't return the feelings. I'm really sorry that this happened, but I think it's okay for you to now go and get back in the game.
She moved 2 years ago, but comes back for vacations and such - A month ago
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So she's not busy with the move - A month ago
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Oh :( well I really think it's messed up of her to tell you that she loves you and then make no effort to keep in touch. I dunno, maybe she's changed. I think you should call her up and just catch up with her :D it might make you feel better. - A month ago
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Idk, I've just figured if she actually wanted to talk to me she'd call.... - A month ago
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Trust me, even when girls are good friends with guys they still want the guy to call them. I guess it's just a girl thing, we always want the guys to make the first move. So just pick up the phone :) you don't have anything to lose. - A month ago
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Thanks - A month ago
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