Why are "needy" men such a turn off to women anyway?

Women hate needy men because they are so easy to get things they want from them. These guys bend over backwards for them. The key is don't do that, now opening the doors for them on a date and stuff is fine, but if your always wanting to be with them, always calling them, always volunteering your services like at her beck and call is a big NO. Do NOT do that. Take control of the situation and man don't be afraid to tell her no when she wines and about something stupid. Being needy to them means oh your a great friend not he will be a great boy friend. Now you don't have to become a complete bad ass comiting felonies to impress her or anything, but you gotta have some element of mystery to you, don't always be there for her, don't ditch your buddies if you were going out for a night on the town with them, that not only will piss your buddies off but to her she will know that you will drop everything to hang out with her, which is also part of being needy.Simply say I have plans tonight but tommarow night I will take you out. A needy guy would drop everything to be with her who cares if you don't hang out with her for one night.

Try this meet a girl get her number and ask her on a date now, do not call her a million times she will ignore your call and go damn this guy is so needy its freaking me out, simply call one time, if she answers great, if not the leave one message and only one say something like hey just wondering if your free tonight if you are then call me back and I would like to take you out to dinner. If she doesn't call you back that night then wait I would say 2 days and call her again if you get the machine again leave another message just one. If she never returns your call within the next couple days move on my friend move on.

Because the world is sick my dear friend. Its nature. They are too blind to see how wonderful you would be if you had some love. You wouldn't be so needy if you had enough love in your life. Whether from your parents or friends or whatever. But the world is just plain sick and lots of people don't get what they need so they end up like you. And instead of helping you others cut you off because its frightening to them.

Most people fake their lack of neediness and so they have horrible fake relationships. That's about 90% of the population. You are ahead of them not behind. Just by simple honesty you are ahead of them.

My suggestion is to become un-needy in a REAL way instead of faking it like everybody else. They have to lie to themselves a lot to pretend they aren't as bad inside believe me. And it hurts them all the time not to be able to reach out to other people when they are in need. Well f*** them.

The real way to become un-needy is to find lots of love in your life. Not just girls. Start hanging out with lots of friends. If your parents were good people and are still alive, see them more often. Make lots of close ties. Get a circle of love cause you need it. Everyone does. If you live somewhere the people are cold and horrible inside like Ontario in Canada or many cities in the states, move. Move to where people are actually human. You will feel that much better and your neediness will disappear.

Much love to you and I hope the very best for you. And f*** the majority of people who don't understand this sh*t. They get what they deserve.